03/09/2025
First and foremost, remember forgiveness isn't something you are doing for the benefit of your friend, but you are doing for your own benefit. You can't forget. But you can forgive. The scars will remain but the injury would be gone. As long as I don't change the feelings associated to the incident and the person involved in that incident that caused me hurt, I continue to relive the same emotions. If she is your best friend, then realize that the person is much bigger than the instances of what happened between the two of you. Recall and relive the hundred special moments between the two of you, instead of the ten disturbing moments. Don't let the thorns blind you to the roses!!! - Mahatria
