14/10/2025
Teaching from Sadguru Gurudev Sadhu Shri Ji:
"You are here just for a short while — in family, school, college, office, neighbourhood, life. Don't create enemies, create friends."
Let’s reflect on this line by line, because its message carries timeless wisdom.
🕰️ "You are here just for a short while"
Whether it's a lifetime, a job, or a conversation, nothing lasts forever.
We pass through phases: childhood, youth, adulthood, old age — and finally, we move on.
Sadhu Shri Ji reminds us of the impermanence of all things — including relationships and roles.
This realization is humbling and liberating.
🌍 "In family, school, college, office, neighbourhood, life..."
He lists the stages and spaces where we interact with others — each one temporary.
These are places of connection, not of conflict.
You're not just passing through life; you're passing through relationships.
In all of these spaces, what do we leave behind? Memories, impressions, energies.
❤️ "Don't create enemies, create friends."
This is the core message:
Don’t let ego, pride, jealousy, or misunderstanding turn fellow travelers into opponents.
You may not agree with everyone — but you can still choose peace over division.
Even when you must walk away, do it with grace, not hatred.
To create a friend is to:
Forgive quickly.
See the good in others.
Speak kindly.
Let go of the need to always be right.
Be generous in spirit.
🌺 A Gentle Reminder
In every interaction — at work, home, or with strangers — ask:
"Am I creating love, or separation?"
"Am I leaving behind peace, or pain?"
This mindset transforms your entire journey.
🕊️ Final Thought
Sadhu Shri Ji’s message is not just about social harmony. It’s about spiritual maturity.
To live without making enemies is a mark of someone who understands the shortness of life, and the depth of human connection.