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14/02/2026

As a therapist, I once worked with a woman who had been “the strong one” for as long as she could remember.

She was the eldest child. When her father fell sick, she helped manage the house. When her mother was overwhelmed, she stayed quiet about her own fears. At school, she never asked for help because she didn’t want to “be a burden.” By the time she became an adult, strength wasn’t just something she had it was who she believed she was.

In our sessions, she spoke clearly, logically, almost clinically about her struggles. She handled work stress alone. She handled relationship conflicts alone. She handled grief alone. Every time I gently asked, “Who do you lean on?” she would smile and say, “I manage.”

And she did manage. That strength helped her survive years when support wasn’t available.

But one day, after describing yet another week of holding everything together, she paused. Her voice cracked just slightly. “I’m tired,” she said. “I don’t know how to not be strong.”

That moment was powerful. Not because she broke down but because she allowed herself to say she was tired.

Over time, she learned something new: strength and support are not opposites. The same resilience that helped her survive could now help her risk vulnerability. She started sharing small truths with a close friend. She allowed herself to cry in session instead of explaining her feelings away. She practiced asking for help awkwardly at first.

Nothing about her became weaker.

In fact, she became softer. And in that softness, there was a different kind of strength the kind that doesn’t come from carrying everything alone, but from knowing you don’t have to.

As a therapist, I learned something through her journey:

Some people learned to be strong early because they had to.
That strength saved them.
But healing adds another option.
You can still be strong and also lean.

If you’re the one who has always held it together, let this be your permission slip:
You don’t have to carry everything alone anymore.

Start small.
Tell one safe person how you’re really doing.
Say “I’m tired” instead of “I’m fine.”
Reach out for support whether that’s a friend, a mentor, or a therapist.

Strength got you here.
Support will help you go further.

It’s okay to talk

03/02/2026

As a therapist, I’ve learned this about overthinking.

Most people who overthink aren’t “too much.”
They’re often the ones who learned early to hold back

In my sessions, I don’t meet people who think too much.
I meet people who didn’t feel safe enough
to speak, to ask, to feel fully.

Overthinking shows up when emotions don’t get space.
When tears felt inconvenient.
When anger wasn’t safe.
When needs were met with silence or judgement.

So the mind steps in.
It replays.
It analyses.
It keeps the story alive
because the feeling underneath was never acknowledged.

Overthinking isn’t a flaw I try to remove.
It’s a signal I help people listen to.

And often, when someone finally says
what they were never allowed to say,
the mind grows quiet on its own.

Not because it was forced to stop
but because it was finally heard.

If this resonated, save this post or share it with someone who overthinks in silence.
Healing begins when emotions find expression and if you need support learning how, help is available.

25/12/2025

What therapists see behind closed doors 👇

I see mothers sit down and say, I shouldn’t feel this way… my child is healthy.”
And then they cry hard.
Because they’re tired of being the strong one all the time.

I see women who haven’t slept properly in months.
Who eat last.
Who don’t remember the last time they rested without guilt.

They tell me, “I’m not failing, right?”
And what I see is not failure—
I see someone who’s been holding everyone together while slowly falling apart inside.

Overwhelm doesn’t mean you’re a bad mother.
It means you’ve been doing too much without enough support.
Rest isn’t laziness it’s how your body survives.
And asking for help isn’t giving up it’s finally telling the truth.

Behind closed doors, I don’t see weak mothers.
I see exhausted, loving, trying-their-best women who were never meant to do this alone.

If this feels familiar, hear this clearly:
You’re not failing.
You’re human.
And you’re doing more than anyone sees. 🌿

09/12/2025

Some days I end the day feeling like I failed at the one thing that matters most.

I lost my patience.
I wasn’t fully present.
I had love in my heart, but not enough energy in my body.

I carry these moments quietly.
I wonder if they noticed.
I wonder if I’m messing this up.

There’s this pressure to hold it all together — to be calm, patient, selfless, strong — even when I’m running on empty.
And when I can’t live up to that image, the guilt creeps in fast.

But here’s what I’m learning the hard way: being imperfect doesn’t make me unsafe or unloving.
It makes me real.

I show up again after I snap.
I apologize.
I repair.
I choose to stay instead of shutting down.

And that counts more than the moments I wish I could erase.

My child doesn’t need a mother who never struggles.
They need one who keeps coming back — tired, unsure, human.

So I’m easing up on myself.
Not because it’s easy, but because it’s necessary.

**If this hit somewhere tender, don’t scroll past it.**
**Save this for the nights the guilt gets loud.**
**Share it with a mom who thinks she’s failing — but isn’t.**
💬 Comment *“I’m trying”* if this feels like your story.

You are not alone in this.
And you are doing more right than you think. 🤍



18/11/2025

You know… when I read the line
POV: You’re a mom pretending everything is fine,”
I felt that ache.
Because so many moms move through life holding a strength nobody sees.

You wake up tired.
You go to bed tired.
And somewhere in between, you carry everyone else’s world on your shoulders… quietly.

Your mind is tired from thinking about a hundred things at once.
Your body is tired from showing up even when it hurts.
Your heart is tired from being the safe space for everyone—
even on days when you don’t have a safe space for yourself.

And what breaks me is this:
You still show up.
Not because you're okay.
Not because you’re superhuman.
But because your love is louder than your exhaustion.

But listen to me… really listen.
That doesn’t mean *you* should disappear in the process.

You deserve a moment to breathe without feeling guilty.
You deserve softness.
You deserve support.
You deserve to be held too—emotionally, mentally, physically.

You deserve to be someone’s priority…
not just someone’s backbone.

So if today feels heavy,
if you’ve been holding tears behind a smile,
if you’re doing everything for everyone and nothing for yourself—
this is your sign:

You are allowed to take care of you too.
Not later.
Not when everything is perfect.
Not when everyone else is settled.
But now.
Because your heart matters.
Your peace matters.
Your well-being matters.

Save this for the days you feel invisible.
And remind yourself:
You are not unseen.
You are not alone.
And you are doing far, far better than you think.

05/11/2025

🛑 **Stop Self-Sabotaging Love!** 🛑

Your fear has a specific script. It whispers: What if you get hurt?

That little voice is just your brain trying to keep you safe from a perceived threat (vulnerability). It’s a defense mechanism, not a prediction! But following that script means you'll keep hitting the *back button* on happiness.

**The Game-Changing Mindset Flip:**

Instead of asking yourself what could go wrong, you have the power to choose a different "What if."

🔥 Ask this instead:

“What if this turns out better than I imagined?”

Choosing this question is choosing hope over habit. It’s choosing the possibility of joy over the certainty of staying safe (and stuck!).

Emotional risk is the entry fee for deep connection.You are resilient enough to handle any outcome, but you deserve the chance at the great one!

Double-tap if you're choosing the hopeful "What if" today! 💖

29/10/2025

😡 Your Anger Isn't a Problem, It's a GPS for Your Boundaries.

We've been taught to bottle up anger, to label it "negative," or to fear its destructive power. But what if I told you your anger is actually a vital messenger? 📧

The Psychological Truth: Anger is an emotion that signals a violation. It tells you, clearly and immediately, that a boundary has been crossed, a core value has been disrespected, or a need is unmet.

The challenge isn't the feeling itself; it's learning to listen without lashing out.

🛑 From Reaction to Action: The 3-Step Anger Decode

Stop viewing anger as a weapon and start using it as a guide. Here is how to decode the message your anger is sending you:

Step 1: The Three-Second Pause (≈ 3s)

When the heat flares up, your primitive brain takes over (the Amygdala Hijack). Your first job is to regain control.

Action: Immediately, physically pause. Take three deliberate, slow breaths. This short delay interrupts the fight-or-flight response, allowing your rational brain (the Prefrontal Cortex) to come back online.

Decodes: Stops you from saying or doing something you’ll regret.

Step 2: Locate the Crossed Boundary

Don't focus on who made you angry, focus on what rule was broken. Anger is precise if you look closely. Ask yourself:

"What was disrespected here?" (My time, my need for privacy, my request for honesty?)

"What do I need that I’m not getting?" (Rest, respect, equal contribution?)

Decodes: Identifies the root issue. Maybe it wasn't the late reply; it was the fact that your time doesn't feel valued.

Step 3: Communicate the Need, Not the Fury

Once you know the message, deliver it calmly and clearly. This is how your anger becomes a tool for change, not a source of conflict.

The Trap: "You always leave this mess! You're so irresponsible!" (Attack/Blame)

The Guided Response (Use the "I feel" formula): "I feel frustrated when the common area isn't cleaned up by the agreed time, because my boundary of shared responsibility is being violated. Moving forward, I need the space to be tidy by 8 PM." (Boundary/Need)

Decodes: Sets a firm, clear expectation for future behaviour, preventing the same anger trigger from happening again.

🔥 Your Anger is Valid. Use It Wisely.

Your feelings matter. Your anger is a sign of something that deserves your attention. Don't suppress it; study it.

Tell me in the comments: What is one boundary (Time, Space, Respect) that your anger has been trying to tell you to set? 👇

Example: "My anger is telling me I need a firmer boundary around my working hours."

Example: "My anger is telling me I need to defend my personal privacy."

30/09/2025

Triggers don’t mean you’re weak—they mean you have unhealed wounds.Instead of reacting immediately, pause, breathe, and ask yourself: ‘What is this moment reminding me of?’ Awareness is the first step to healing.”

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