05/05/2022
Glad to share that one decision which has benefited me the most. Want to try it out, if that works for you?
As an avid book reader, I look out for action items from every book. Over the past 3 decades I have implemented many.
If you ask me one action item that stands tall above the rest - it is this.
"DO NOT TAKE ANY IMPORTANT DECISION WHEN YOU ARE EMOTIONALLY CHARGED - EITHER WAYS, EXTREME HIGH or LOW"
I do not remember the book name, as this was about 25 years ago.
The logic was simple and straight forward.
When you are emotionally charged - intelligence goes down. Why?
Emotional veil will mask your objectivity and not let you have a holistic view. Obviously, your intelligence takes a beating.
Leaning more on the emotional side - I found this very relevant to me.
Initially it used to take a while before I regain my emotional balance. After Yoga came into my life, it became easier.
This is the strategy I follow today and it helps me great time. I now teach it to my students as part of what I call YogaPLUS lifestyle at Ankur.
There are instances when my students mended their relationships. Long pending divorce cases were resolved. Families got re-united.
In one instance, one of the student restrained dropping out of college and is happily pursuing the career of his choice - confident and balanced.
THE STRATEGY:
- Whenever emotionally charged - Pause and take a step back. Do not take the decision.
- Do some relaxation practices, regain the balance.
- In a relaxed state of mind, when you are sure that objectivity is back in its place, take the decision.
Sometimes, I am criticised for being slow in decision making.
Do you agree that it is better that way, rather than take an emotionally charged decision and regret later? Reply "YES" if you agree.
If you had also benefited from such approach - Reply "Benefit" in the comments below.
If you need help in managing your emotions - book a one-one-one session using the link below.
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