07/03/2023
Women are strong and resilient!
This is the story of one such strong woman I know.. Her smile always brightened up the place even when she was holding a lot of untold pain within her!
By sharing her story with you, she is trying to brighten up your lives!
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No matter how much our society has developed, there has always been constant pressure on women to get married, bear children, sacrifice their jobs, take care of family, etc. And if any of these gets delayed, a young woman has to bear with patience the opinions of so many so called wise people in the society.
I had to go through one such phase where I could not bear a child very soon due to some health issues. And I stopped attending many celebrations bcoz i need not listen to such opinions anymore. Bcoz i was already filled with such guilt. I came across people on the work front too, who would pass loose comments about some random person that she bore a test tube baby only and then look at me and tell, we are not referring to you(as I was consulting fertility experts then).
I would love to tell you all one thing. The only strong support I had was always my husband throughout this phase. He kept telling me, just be happy with yourself. And that I mean the world to him. There was a particular video that he used to share showing me the whole wide universe....and the so many galaxies and ours is just a part of it. And looking at its so many subsets, he made me realise that our desires and our pain is actually nothing much. And there is no need to feeling guilty at all. I understood the whole thing. And stopped caring about the opinions of everyone else. Started taking care of myself. And miraculously, we were blessed with our bundle of joy, Krish (name changed) without any medical assistance.
I just kept telling myself everyday, that God will definitely bless us. And He did. So for all of you who can relate or understand what I have gone through or even worst, never ever feel guilty for what happens with you. Just sleep it through and shine more everyday.
I personally believe that a mother is born the day a girl baby is born. Irrespective of whether she bears a child or not. There is always that motherly stride in everything she does as a daughter, as a friend,as a sister and as a wife....so never belittle her.....
And never let anyone ever make you feel guilty too. Hold the reins of your life in your own hands and have a joyous ride!!! ❤️
-Anonymous ❤️
