Its Only Mind

15/09/2025

WHY DO SOME PEOPLE SUCCEED WITH VERY LIMITED RESOURCES WHILE OTHERS FAIL WITH ABUNDANCE?

If you take a rich man’s son as an example, in most cases he doesn’t prosper to the level that people expect. It’s not entirely his fault—because for him, there is no real question of survival. There is no challenge. Life is already comfortable. But if you look at a poor man’s son, the picture is very different. He has to fight for every step. He doesn’t have resources, so he struggles, he suffers, and he learns to overcome. Through this process, he becomes tough—mentally, emotionally, and physically. That toughness gives him the strength to rise higher in life.

The mind also plays an important role. The mind always desires what it doesn’t have. A poor man’s son sees that he doesn’t have money, and naturally, he craves it. He wants to live and enjoy life the way rich people do. That desire becomes his challenge, and he works towards it until he achieves it. Because of limited resources, poor kids also face more criticism and failures. But instead of breaking down, they fight harder. Criticism fuels their growth. Obstacles make them stronger. Over time, they use that strength to win.

For example, suppose a rich man has assets worth 100 crores. If his son takes over, in many cases the value comes down to 50 crores. Why? Because he doesn’t see it as a challenge—he only maintains, he doesn’t grow. I’m not saying this is true in every case, but it happens often. Now, take a man with nothing. If he rises and creates 200 crores of wealth, that’s real growth. Because he started from zero, every step was a challenge. Once he finds the way, once he gets the momentum, money multiplies. This is why people with limited resources often achieve more—while those with abundance sometimes achieve less. The struggle is what shapes greatness.

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14/09/2025

ACTUALLY, I DID A LOVE MARRIAGE. IN THE BEGINNING, IT WAS QUITE EXCITING. BUT AFTER SOME TIME, IT STARTED BECOMING BORING. I BEGAN TO FEEL A SENSE OF MONOTONY WITH MY WIFE. NOW, WHEN I SEE OTHER WOMEN, I FIND A LOT OF INTEREST IN THEM. I FEEL LIKE LIKING AND LOVING THEM. SO HOW DO I DEAL WITH THIS?

Let me give you an example. You know Dr. Abdul Kalam. Just imagine he is alive now, and suddenly you are given an opportunity to meet him. He is one of the greatest human beings in Indian history—perhaps even in world history. Naturally, you would feel very excited. Imagine you get to spend two hours with him. You would be thrilled. But now suppose Dr. Kalam tells you to stay with him for a whole month. Every day, except for sleeping hours, he keeps talking to you. What happens then? The initial excitement of two hours fades away. After several days, you may even start to feel bored and begin thinking, “Why is this man talking continuously? Why can’t I leave this place?” This shows how the mind works.

The same applies to marriage. Initially, especially in a love marriage, it is exciting to be together because earlier you were apart for many hours. Once you begin living together 24/7, the excitement slowly reduces. At first, there is pleasure and joy, but over time, since your spouse is available all the time, it becomes monotonous. Arguments start, boredom sets in, and this leads to unhappiness. Then, when you see other women, they appear new and interesting, and naturally, you feel like liking, loving, or even being in a relationship with them.

This is natural. I cannot say your feelings are wrong. But here is the important point: you must have a strong mindset that such actions are unethical. Think about it this way—your wife may also feel the same boredom, and she may start thinking, “My husband is boring, why don’t I like other men instead?” If she develops that thought, how would you feel? So the question is not whether the thought is natural—it is about whether it is ethical or unethical. Acting on such thoughts is definitely unethical, and you must strongly believe this.

Once your mind accepts this truth, you will find ways to overcome it.

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03/09/2025

WHY DO WE ENVY OTHERS BUT IGNORE OUR OWN BLESSINGS ?

There was once a girl who had everything—money, power, and comfort. But she was not beautiful. Nearby lived another girl who was very beautiful, but she had no money or power. Beauty was the only thing she possessed.

The girl with money and power felt insecure. She looked at the beautiful girl and thought, “Everyone will be drawn to beauty. No one will care about my wealth or power.” Out of this insecurity, she became jealous.

In the same way, the beautiful girl also felt insecure. She thought, “The other girl has money and power. Everyone will be attracted to her, not me.” And she too felt jealous.

This shows the nature of the mind. A person may have 99 things, but the one thing they lack becomes their focus. If someone else has that one thing, insecurity and jealousy arise. The fear is always the same: “What I don’t have, others have, and people will value them more than me.” What many fail to realize is that everyone thinks this way. Each person’s achievements come from their own circumstances, situations, and unique factors.

The truth is simple: be happy with whatever blessings you already have. Even if you possess only 90 things out of 100, be grateful for those 90. If you can, work toward the rest. If you don’t achieve them, accept it and move on.

In the end, it’s all about thoughts. If insecure thoughts arise, don’t feed them. Don’t let them grow—just pause, go blank, and let them pass. When you do this, they will leave your mind. Happiness comes from valuing your blessings, accepting life as it is, and living with a content mindset. That is the way to true peace.

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01/09/2025

FOR SOME PRAYERS, GOD ANSWERS POSITIVELY, AND FOR SOME HE DOES NOT. WHY IS THIS SO, AND WHY SHOULD WE PRAY THEN ?

Some people pray to God, and their prayers are fulfilled. But for others, it doesn’t happen. Usually, when we pray, we expect something positive to occur. For some, it happens; for others, it does not. This depends on karma and destiny. Even if someone prays with good intentions, if their past karma is unfavorable, the prayer may not be fulfilled. On the other hand, even people who may seem bad sometimes have their prayers answered because they may have done good deeds in the past. That positive karma brings results.

Whether a person is good or bad, if they sincerely pray to God, even if the prayer is not fulfilled, God still acknowledges the devotion. He gives the strength to accept the situation. Even if He does not make things positive, He calms the mind and reduces the suffering. That itself is one of the true effects of prayer. For example, in the case of health issues, prayer may not always remove the illness completely. But it can bring improvement, or at least give the person courage, peace, and acceptance. If the situation is not made positive due to the active results of past karma, God still helps the person accept it and eases the pain.

Acceptance is the greatest solution to all problems. Through prayer, God helps us reach that acceptance and reduces our suffering. And from the pain caused by past bad karma, we also learn not to create further bad karma.

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