03/03/2026
What does Holi remind us of every year?
The family issue?
The issue was about a father (Hiranyakashipu) who was very powerful in asuri shakti. He wanted to kill his own son (Prahlad) with the help of his sister (Holika) because his son loved his enemy (Lord Vishnu) and did not like or follow his father’s aasuri teachings.
The Prahlad ’s mother (Kayadhu) was crying helplessly, asking someone to save her son. But everyone around kept their heads down. No one came to help that mother. Prahlad was thrown into the fire, but Lord Vishnu’s divine power saved him. With time, one by one, all those people who did not help Prahlad and Kayadhu received punishment for their karma. Holika died a very painful death. After some time, Hiranyakashipu also died a painful death through Lord Narasimha.
What does this whole incident teach us?
Human beings are of two types — one who want to walk according to Divine teachings, and the other who want to walk according to devil’s teachings. Many souls who come from the Divine take birth or get married into families who follow devil’s teaching. They entered in these toxic family systems to break the generational curse.
Do you know many children live in homes where the father belongs to devil’s lineage and the mother belongs to the Divine. In such homes, a father like Hiranyakashipu often gets full support from his own devil mother and in some cases it is sister, who is like Holika. Together, father and bhua/grandmother go after the daughter-in-law who wants to follow Divine teachings. They torture her because she does not follow their dark teachings. And to torture her more, they manipulate her child’s mind against her.
To aakhir aap inke sath fanse kaise ? – Toxic Relationship Phases
1. Illusion Phase - for the outside world they maintain the image of saints. How do they maintain this saintly image?
a. Attention – They give excessive attention to outside people, which feels extraordinary. Many Divine souls lacked attention in past lives, so they quickly get attached to such devil personalities.
b. Help & Care – They become extremely helpful and caring. Help and care are very attractive to Divine souls, So good people may go to any extent to stay with such devils, leaving their genuinely good relationships.
2. Confusion Phase -
After living daily life with such a family, Divine souls start feeling something is wrong. Their words and actions do not match. From here, the confusion phase begins, and it can continue for a very long time.
3. Shock Phase -Then the shock phase starts. One shock after another, like electric shocks, begins because of their behavior. Slowly confusion becomes clear. You understand that they are not like you. They are devil-like.
4. Helplessness Phase -Then helplessness starts. Protecting yourself and your children is not easy because their network is very strong. The devil you have seen inside them is almost impossible to prove to others because of these 2 reasons.
A . People in their outer circle see them as caring, loving, and helpful. Exactly theek vaise hi jaise aap unko past main dekh rahe the jab aap unke outer circle main the.
B. To maintain illusion, they build a strong network and frequently visit people’s homes so that when you speak the truth, no one believes you. Divine souls do not unnecessarily visit people’s homes. They use free time for important work or rest.
5. Tension and stress phase — In this phase now you will have to face harsh comments. In the past, you may have praised their help and attention so much that people will think you are mad when you speak against them. Even you may start doubting yourself. Your own authenticity.
6. Tapasya phase - Divine souls connect with the Divine and do healing and spiritual practices intensely to balance themselves and fight such powerful asuras.
7. Freedom Phase - Finally, after completing tapasya, with Divine grace and power, Divine souls free themselves from such people.
Many women never begin their tapasya phase. They remain stuck in stress and eventually suffer from stress-related diseases. In the next birth, they may again have to face the same toxic relationships.
Do not let that happen to you.
Start your tapasya phase now, so that the phase of freedom can also come in your life.
So dear ones, those who are learning lessons from toxic relationships must understand that apart from the Divine, Spiritual Teachers & Healers, no one can truly help you. Stop expecting help from any family member who belongs to toxic relationships.
Start your tapasya like Prahlad did. Free yourself from Hiranyakashipu and Holika-like demons, even if they are blood relations. And after becoming free, apply colors, dance, eat good food, and celebrate your win over evil.
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Happy Holi
Love and Light
Dr. Shruti Upadhyay
