28/12/2021
If you want to be free,let go of expectations of and unconscious demands on others.You would realise,all problems you face with others are not because you deserve a certain treatment by them,it's because you DON'T deserve ANY CERTAIN treatment by them.And what others do is,not because you are nice or bad...it's because THEY FEEL LIKE TREATING you that way.There's nothing personal.There can't be anything personal.It's always what others prefer that matters to them And that MEANs...EVERYTHING YOU do is only for YOU and it MATTERS ONLY to YOU.There's no other reason why you'd do anything because at the end,what matters is how it makes YOU FEEL.
You see,what others think of you,is none of your business.And there's no certain way they need to treat you.It's their freedom to do what they see best and it's your freedom to do what you choose as best for you.You don't make others feel any way.They understand what they feel,no matter what you do.So,please don't take anything in life personally.It's your own journey and everyone has their own.So,manage as you go,without being attached to any treatment you receive as its all impersonal.Not done to you but done by others to make them feel a certain way....it gives them the outcome,not you.And what you do ,gives you the outcome ,not them.And when both feel the same thing and appreciate each other ,then,theirs LOVE.LOVE is the only truth.