
31/03/2025
Read my expert insights on Princess Syndrome (Papa Ki Pari) and its impact on personality development, relationships, and mental well-being
Not a Disney movie! Princess Syndrome can mess with real-life relationships
“Such individuals often expect life to be handed to them on a silver platter,” says Dr Nisha Khanna, psychologist and marriage counsellor. “When reality does not align with their expectations, they experience frustration, dissatisfaction, and even self-esteem issues.”
The syndrome can also create unrealistic expectations in dating. Many expect grand gestures and a ‘Prince Charming’ figure to cater to their every need. They view relationships as a means of validation rather than partnerships built on mutual effort.
“They also use manipulation, playing the victim by claiming, ‘I don’t know how to do this,’ or ‘You handle it better.’ In romantic relationships, they may demand financial dependence without contributing, expecting their partners to fulfill all their needs,” says Dr Khanna.
Breaking the cycle
As friends or partners, we may often overlook this entitled behaviour and give in to their whims and fancies. However, experts say this is the wrong approach. Instead, they suggest several ways to address and overcome these tendencies.
Develop self-awareness – Recognising entitled behaviours is the first step toward change.
Practice gratitude – Shifting focus from entitlement to appreciation helps build healthier relationships.
Build resilience – Facing challenges without expecting rescue fosters personal growth.
Contribute to others – Acts of kindness and service create a sense of reciprocity in relationships.
Work on independence – Taking responsibility for finances, career, and life choices enhances self-sufficiency.
Seek constructive feedback – Accepting and applying criticism allows for continuous self-improvement.
Dr Khanna emphasises the role of external intervention: “Friends, partners, and family members should set boundaries. Instead of indulging entitled behaviour, they should encourage self-reliance.” Read more in detail at India today article