25/11/2025
OWN YOUR ESSENCE
There comes a moment when you stop trying to become and start remembering who you already are.
That’s what it means to own your essence.
It begins with realizing that you’re already enough. That you were never meant to earn your worth by overgiving, overworking or overproving.
It’s the moment you stop rushing to catch up with the version the world expects and start slowing down to meet the one that’s already inside you.
It’s learning to speak your truth, even when it shakes. To rest without guilt. To say no without an apology.
It is letting go of every story that told you to be more. More pleasing. More successful. More agreeable. More something.
Because maybe you were never supposed to be more of anything. Maybe you were supposed to be more of you.
It’s forgiving yourself for the times you abandoned your own needs just to be accepted. It’s learning to celebrate the quiet, ordinary moments where you feel most like yourself.
Because in the end, owning your essence isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about remembering who you were before the world told you to be someone else.
For instance, take flowers.
When they know they are fragrance, they don’t need to shout about it. They just bloom. BLOOM WHERE YOU ARE PLANTED🌷
And once you stop performing and start being, everything changes.
