02/06/2025
We received this submission from another seeker, sharing the response from our volunteer coaches below:
Dear friend,
You have stated that your current situation is 'beyond your acceptance level'. You are indeed in a difficult situation.
That said, I would advise you to think this through and make a choice. And what are your options? Either you accept your wife the way she is, with her lover et al. Or you choose to let go of her. And start your life afresh.
Accepting your wife with her lover would require you to become large hearted and broad minded. It requires self restraint and supreme will power. Are you strong enough to do this, ask yourself. Pls remember, going beyond your acceptance level means you have improved yourself ,as a person. You would need to be spiritually evolved. This would make you God's favourite. If you forgive once, higher power will forgive you ten times.
If, on the other hand, you choose to leave her, you would still emerge a stronger person because living alone is not going to be easy.
In either case, the Universe has given you this challenging situation so that you emerge stronger.
Pls don't ask her to change. She won't.
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