08/03/2025
ππ Break-up is widely understood as the ending of a romantic relationship, which can significantly impact mental health, potentially leading to feelings of sadness, and anxiety and even increased risk of suicidal ideation.
The 7 stages that a person emotionally goes through after a break-up are:
1. Shock - Shock is an immediate reaction after the break-up. This is a phase of disbelief as you were used to being with a person, and now suddenly they aren't a part of your life anymore. In this stage you question yourself and want some answers from your ex.
2. Denial - The second stage, followed by shock, is often denial. Here people refuse to accept the reality and bottle up their emotions.
Those who go though break-ups think that if they don't accept the truth, it didn't really happen, leaving a reunion chance.
3. Anger - In this phase, the heart becomes fueled with anger towards your ex for his/her part in the break-up, or perhaps towards yourself for your part. A lot of negative self-talk, regretful and angry conversations happen with oneself. The reason for all this is to find something or someone to blame.
4. Pain - It is the intense distress and discomfort experience. The pain of a break-up manifests as feelings of sadness, grief, longing, anger, and sometimes even physical symptoms like difficulty sleeping, loss of appetite, and stomach aches.
5. Bargaining - In this stage you want to fix things that has happened in the past where you feel that you have done wrong that might have lead to the break-up.
6. Depression - The phase where you are emotionally very very low, feel to do nothing. Just grieving over the whole situation.
7. Acceptance - Here one accepts the fact that the relationship is no more there and will have to move on in your life.
It is emphasized that individuals going through a break-up need social support networks and professional mental health help when dealing with it especially if the emotional impact is severe.