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24/02/2023

PARENTS, DONT WORRY !

1. Don't worry about your kids not remembering world history ..Teach them your family history..especially family medical history...it will sure help them in need

2. Don't worry about your kids unable to locate continents and capitals on the world map..Teach them the names of roads around your house and landmarks to reach home from any location of your town

3. Don't really worry if your kid does not win medals in sports and does not remember who won world cups...Teach them to exercise and stay fit

4. Don't bother of your kid scoring 100% in mathematics...Teach them to budget their expenses , save for emergencies and transact money at the shops. Let them know of your income, loans, property details..

5. Don't make your kids memorise and recite hundreds of slokas, thirukural etc...teach them the meaning of one at a time and how to apply in daily life

6. Don't try to push kids into becoming big musicians or dancers and win competitions..Teach them to enjoy and appreciate music , so they know how to relax when they are in stress.

7. Don't compel kids into driving their own bicycles or scooters because others are doing so...If they like to take the school bus to spend relaxed time with friends or a public transport , let them do so..

8. Don't worry if your kids don't eat every item you cook..Teach them to make their own sandwich...they will relish it more than what you made..

9. Don't push your kids to read and memorise autobiographies of Mahatma Gandhi or Saina Nehwal...Teach them to write their own biography...They will then want to make their life interesting and worth writing ..

10. Don't compel your kids to socialize ..Teach them how to make their life interesting with less dependency on others.

11. Don't impose religious activities on your kids...Teach them the relevance of each and help them to become spiritual..Spirituality is the key to keep themselves and also people around them happy..

Remember, a Parent's only goal for their kids is to keep them HAPPY.. You don't need to spend a lot of TIME, ENERGY , SPACE or MONEY to reach that goal of HAPPINESS...

Teach your kid to be HAPPY with the available resources.

Whosoever compiled this has done a great job! Isn’t it?

15/08/2021

This Independence Day, let’s become truly independent by overcoming poor self image and low self esteem.

14/08/2021

Evolve wishes everyone a very Happy Independence Day ‼️
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26/01/2021

Happy Republic Day!

01/01/2021

Wishing everyone a happy new year 2021

07/12/2020

07th December'2020, World Image Day

A day to take a pledge that we will use our "Happy Image" to build a "Happy Me" and spread the happiness to build a "Happy World, Happy We"

2020 - The Earth healed and we rediscovered the Power of Appreciation, even the smallest things.

2020 - No Depreciation, only Appreciation, and a resolve to "Surge Ahead"

14/11/2020

Wishing everyone a happy & prosperous Diwali!

25/10/2020

Let this day be the beginning of positivity winning over self-doubt & negativity
Wishing everyone a very Happy Dussehera😀

13/10/2020

Extrinsic🏅vs. Intrinsic Motivation
Motivation is not easy, especially when you’re trying to motivate others! Rewards are an easy way to get children to do a task you want them to do. However, there’s a flip side 🤔
Researchers have found that self motivated kids are typically fulfilled and happier than those who depend on external motivation and giving children rewards reduces intrinsic motivation, even for tasks that are usually interesting and fun to do 🙌🏼

So how can we motivate our kids the right way?

Here are a few tips to nurture a child's intrinsic motivation:

1. Show them how FUN and rewarding it is to learn & grow! Model your love of learning daily.

2. Give children plenty of opportunities to lead and self-direct their play.

3. Have them set goals for themselves! Start small!

4. Give acknowledgement and encouragement so that children own their efforts and accomplishments. "You did that yourself, you must be proud" rather than just saying "good job".

5. If their plan doesn’t work out, encourage them to do better next time. Remind them that failure is just a chance to learn!

28/09/2020

Join us for an interesting session on how to master your minutes!

20/09/2020

I’m excited to be a spotlight speaker at an International Parenting Summit.
Uniting Experts to Educate Parents.

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Follow the link to sign up for the Summit.
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Hope to see you there.

13/09/2020

Why is it so important to create a lasting first impression?
What are some elements that help us to project a great first impression?
Watch this video to get answers to these questions!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-BuOlL1dxbE&feature=youtu.be

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11/09/2020

To be in your children's memories tomorrow...
You have to be in their lives today.
I know we think these days and weeks will never end...
and we respond with “maybe tomorrow”, when the kids ask to do things together.
Next thing you know they are grown up and off with their friends...
So

Spend as much time as you can with them today, their childhood is not here to stay!

08/09/2020

You can have anything you want if you dress for it!!
Humans have a photographic memory and hence how you dress and groom yourself is instantly noticed and registered in people's minds.
That is why you must 'dress the way you want to be addressed'.
Ask yourself the following questions before choosing any outfit;
1. What is the occasion ?
2. Who are you meeting ?
3. What's the purpose ?
4. What message do "you" want to send about yourself ?
5. What perception do you want "them" to form about you ?
Answering these questions will help you dress appropriately, attractively, and authentically.

Always remember - Your Clothes Communicate!

So

Make the right choices!

05/09/2020

"If there were no teachers, all other professions would not exist"
A very happy teacher's day to my first teacher- my mom and all other teachers and mentors who have helped me become the person I'm today! Heartfelt gratitude!!

31/08/2020

Have you ever wondered that some people seem to have enough time to do everything they want to, whereas others are always short of time?
It cannot just be that some people have less to do. It is more likely that they are using their time more effectively.
Time management is the art of finding out the time to do everything you wish to without being stressed about it!
For a one on one session on time management, you may get in touch with me at evolvewithcharu@gmail.com

26/08/2020

Do you argue with each other in front of your child?
Arguing about your children in front of them can be confusing, upsetting and guilt provoking. Instead resolve such conflicts behind closed doors by following these tips:
1)Divide areas of responsibility
Assign to yourselves the things you feel most strongly about. If you care about manners, make rules related to how you should behave at the table; and if your spouse cares about diet and health, so the responsibility for deciding what goes on the table is in her court.

2) Don't give your spouse a bad name
"Mummy doesn't know how to wash your face, or Daddy is so slow getting you ready in the morning" can undermine a spouse's authority in a child's eyes and sends undesirable messages.

3)Be open to learning from each other's insights
Sometimes the parent who spends the most time with children knows what's best for them and so they could be objective. Listen to each other's opinions with open minds - you may have more to learn than you think. And your child will also learn something valuable too; that you respect each other's opinions.

4) Be consistent
However you decide to settle child-care issues between you, be sure that the rules that are spelled out to your child are consistent for you both too. If you insist, they should wash their hands before eating and your spouse doesn't; or if your spouse allows climbing on the furniture and you don't, they will feel confused. Even worse, they may believe that they can't do anything right and give up trying. So don't switch back and forth on parental policies depending on who's in charge at the moment.

Finally, keep in mind that there are more ways to handle the most parenting issues. And the way both of you respond to each other, show respect for each other and compromise with each other plays a very important role in your child's life too.

24/08/2020

Being a trainer means training ourselves to transform & influence the lives we touch! A very happy trainer's day to all the trainers!!
Proud to be a trainer!