26/04/2025
THE A-Z
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Because true love is more than words—it’s how you hold space for each other, even when life is messy. It’s choosing your person again and again, in silence, in storm, and in the softest parts of forever.
A – Always love your spouse.
Not just when they’re easy to love. But when they’re tired, distant, hurting, or human. Love them consistently, not conditionally.
B – Believe in each other.
Even when the world doubts. Be their loudest cheerleader and quietest support in the background. Your belief may be the light they need to keep going.
C – Celebrate each other often.
Don’t wait for anniversaries. Celebrate the little victories, the quiet strength, the simple ways they show up and love you.
D – Don’t argue, reason together.
Let love lead the conversation. Seek peace over power. Understanding over being right. Fight the problem, not each other.
E – Expect imperfections.
They will mess up. So will you. But love doesn’t look for perfect—it embraces flaws and still chooses to stay.
F – Fix problems on time.
Don’t let silence grow into distance. Talk it out. Hug it out. Don’t let the sun set with anger in your heart.
G – Go for walks together.
Hold hands. Watch the sky. Let your feet move while your hearts reconnect. It’s not about the destination—it’s about the togetherness.
H – Hold each other’s hands often.
In joy, in sadness, in crowds, in silence. A hand-hold says, “I’ve got you.” And that’s enough on most days.
I – Ignite the passion daily.
Not just physical intimacy—but mental closeness. Tease. Play. Flirt. Don’t let the spark fade in the rush of routine.
J – Just laugh more.
Laughter is medicine for love. It’s the bridge that brings you back when words fail. Be silly. Be real. Be light-hearted together.
K – Kill the spirit of unhealthy comparison.
You’re not like other couples. You’re you. And that’s your magic. Protect it.
L – Let your spouse know your movements.
Not as control—but connection. Stay reachable. Stay real. Stay present, even when you’re apart.
M – Make love like newlyweds.
Make it sacred, not rushed. Make it intentional, not habitual. Let passion be a way you speak when words aren’t enough.
N – No separate rooms.
Even when you’re upset, let your nearness remind you of love’s commitment. Don’t sleep apart—let your hearts learn to stay.
O – Oppose every intruder.
Anyone or anything that threatens your peace, your bond, your trust—protect your union from it.
P – Pray together.
Your souls need it. Your hearts crave it. There is no deeper intimacy than holding hands before God.
Q – Quality time matters.
Not just time—but intentional time. Undivided attention. Conversations. Memories in the making. Stay present.
R – Resist temptation.
Protect their heart like it’s your own. Because it is. Stay loyal in the moments no one is watching.
S – Support each other’s dreams.
Be the person who never makes them feel silly for dreaming. Help them build it. Be part of their wings.
T – Take no record of past wrongs.
Let forgiveness flow easily. Resentment is a slow poison. Love is the antidote.
U – Utilize bonding opportunities.
From washing dishes to road trips—every moment can be a memory if you let it.
V – Visualize your future together.
Talk about growing old. About rocking chairs and wrinkled hands. About building a love that lives beyond a lifetime.
W – Win their heart again and again.
Don’t stop dating them. Don’t stop complimenting them. Don’t stop fighting for that smile.
X – X-ray your love.
Reflect often. Look beneath the surface. What’s working? What’s hurting? Don’t let dust settle on love.
Y – Yell less, listen more.
Love isn’t loud. It’s patient. It’s curious. It listens not to reply, but to understand.
Z – Zip your lips when anger rises.
Sometimes silence saves what harsh words would destroy. Choose calm over chaos.
Because love isn’t built in the grand moments. It’s built in the quiet ones—when you choose them despite the tiredness, the pride, the noise of the world.
Hold on to love like it’s your forever home.
Because that’s exactly what it is.