02/04/2026
You’re in the hospital.
You’re told it’s time to push.
But your body is quiet. There’s no urge.
“Lie on your back.”
“Push now.”
And suddenly, you’re expected to perform, even when your body isn’t ready. This is where antenatal preparation (Lamaze childbirth prep) makes all the difference.
When you understand how pushing works, you know it’s not something to force on command. The urge to push is your body’s reflex and when you follow it, birth is often more effective and less overwhelming.
You also learn that you don’t have to be on your back just because you’re told to. Other positions, like squatting, side-lying, hands and knees, can feel more natural, more comfortable, and more in sync with your body.
In this clip from our conversation with Shezzi, we explore this exact scenario: when instructions don’t match what your body is telling you. How do you respond in that moment?
Preparation gives you more than just information. I t gives you the confidence to pause and say:
“I don’t feel the urge yet.”
“Can I try a different position?”
It helps you ask your careprovider how they approach pushing, what positions they support, and whether they follow your body’s cues... before you’re in the middle of labor. Because advocacy doesn’t begin in the labour room. It begins with understanding your body, your options, and your care.
If you want to walk into birth feeling informed, confident, and able to trust yourself, our Lamaze class starting on the 4th is a good place to begin. DM us to join.