
25/06/2025
Everyone wants inner peace.
That calm sense of âIâm okay. Iâm safe. Iâm enough.â
But most of us are stuck in a loop â of overthinking, people-pleasing, emotional reactivity, or chasing something that never really fills the gap.
Iâve seen this up close, in myself and in therapy.
Weâre not fighting life.
Weâre fighting our patterns â patterns born from old wounds, survival modes, and roles we didnât choose but learned to perform.
Inner peace isnât found in controlling the world around you.
Itâs found when you stop being at war with yourself.
Psychologist Carl Rogers said,
âThe curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.â
Thatâs what inner peace is â not a perfect life, but a soft place inside you where your truth can rest.
Itâs when you stop performing and start feeling.
Itâs when you set a boundary and donât shake with guilt after.
Itâs when you sit in silence and it doesnât scare you.
Therapy is where I see people get closer to that peace â not all at once, but gently, session by session.
If you feel like youâve been circling the same emotional loop for yearsâŚ
Youâre not broken. Youâre just tired.
And maybe itâs time to find another way.
Come up the stairs.
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