12/04/2025
Infertility is often seen as just a medical problem — lots of tests, treatments, and procedures, with hopes rising and falling over and over again. But through my work in Family Constellation, I have seen that the real cause of infertility can sometimes be hidden deep in a family’s emotions and history.
Over the years, many couples came to me feeling tired and heartbroken. They had gone through failed IVF treatments, tried to adopt without success, and were losing hope. They had done everything modern medicine suggested, but something invisible still seemed to block them.
In one powerful case, after a few Family Constellation sessions, we found hidden family issues: generations of unresolved sadness, the painful death of a child, and a hidden feeling in the family that it was unsafe to have more children. By healing these old wounds — recognizing the pain, honoring lost family members, and helping love flow again in the family — the couple was able to conceive naturally. Today, they are the happy parents of a healthy three-year-old.
In another case, a woman struggled to get pregnant because of a deep fear of childbirth. This fear didn’t start in this life, but in a past life where she lost a child during birth. Through past life healing and constellation work, we helped her let go of that old fear. Within three to four months, she became pregnant.
Stories like these show me again and again: infertility is not always just about the body. Sometimes it’s a quiet message to heal old emotional wounds, family pain, and hidden traumas that we carry without even knowing it.
Medical help is, of course, very important and should not be ignored. But when emotional, energy, and family healing are added to the process, amazing things can happen. Having a child is not just about starting a new life — it’s also about continuing a family’s story, and that story often includes the joys and sorrows of those who came before us.therapist.manisha
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Through Family Constellation work, I’ve seen incredible changes: when the hidden pain from the past is healed, the way forward opens, and life can move freely again