28/02/2026
A talking about good behaviour or not bad behaviour. This is solely for the new parents out there.
Generally we don't teach our children about behaviours, they tend to understand it through our behaviours.
During my sessions, I have understood that children tend to have a vague idea about good behaviours. Thought they are well aware of bad behaviours.
Parents tend to say, that my child is showing bad behaviours like hitting , pushing, using bad languages all of those. Now with succesive therapies I have seen parents coming up saying my child is behaving good (just not showing a bad behaviour for few days). This is the major reason why bad behaviours tend to come back again.
It is because the child is understanding if I don't show few of the neg. Behaviours for few days then I can make my mother feel happy.
As it has not become their habit so it becomes inconsistent when ever they are overwhelmed with emotions.
Now my question to mothers, being a human isn't it expected to behave kindly with others, not to hurt, using words mindfully with others.
If it is expected, then how can it be a definition of a good behaviour - it is just not a bad behaviour.
A good behaviour is any positive behaviour which you are consistent with. When your child is feeling emotionally overwhelming still have a control in their choice of words and their abrupt actions.
Remember : all these learnings are for there lifetime. Parents are the one who are making a person. So, our teachings are very important.