18/09/2025
“Self-Compassion vs. Self-Criticism – Learning Kinder Inner Dialogue”:
1. Notice Your Inner Voice – Pay attention to the tone you use when speaking to yourself.
2. Challenge Harsh Thoughts – Ask: Would I say this to a friend? If not, reframe it.
3. Practice Positive Self-Talk – Replace “I failed” with “I’m learning.”
4. Allow Imperfection – Remind yourself it’s okay not to get everything right.
5. Use Soothing Language – Call yourself by kind names (“It’s okay, dear self”).
6. Validate Feelings – Instead of suppressing emotions, acknowledge: “This is hard, and it’s okay to feel this way.”
7. Forgive Mistakes – Treat errors as opportunities for growth, not proof of inadequacy.
8. Celebrate Small Wins – Give yourself credit for effort, not just outcomes.
9. Cultivate Gratitude for Self – List qualities or moments you appreciate about yourself daily.
10. Seek Support, Not Isolation – Sharing struggles with safe people can soften self-criticism