Dr. Deepti Kukreja

Dr. Deepti Kukreja If you or someone you care about needs help, please feel free to contact me at drkukreja.com.

It has been my good fortune to train and work for many years in internationally known centers of excellence in psychiatry at Christian Medical College, Vellore; VIMHANS, Delhi; Safdarjung Hospital, Delhi; Max Hospital, Delhi; and the University Hospital of Lausanne, Switzerland, along with research and administrative experience at the World Health Organization, Geneva, Switzerland. Much of my past professional experience and current practice has been devoted to performing evaluations and consultations for patients and their families who are just getting started in the process of finding appropriate mental health care. In some cases, I meet with patients on a short-term basis to establish a diagnosis, suggest an initial treatment plan, and provide referrals to other clinicians. In other cases, I form long-term treatment relationships with patients that focus on managing illness, promoting wellness, and reaching the goal of optimal functioning.

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18/03/2021

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With more and more people being diagnosed with stress related issues and mental health disorders, there is increased interest in finding out feasible solutions (especially non pharmacological) to address them. Research and clinical experience tells us that going back to the basics is the key to bett

09/03/2021

Mental Health and wellness in Women

On this 60th International Women’s day, there is a growing focus on the role of women in the world, in leadership, national and world economy, as well as within the family. Given the tremendously changing status of women the world over, mental wellness and health of women has become especially important in today’s world.

Women and men are not only different in their physical appearance but also in the way they communicate, deal in relationships and react to stress. Gender is a very important determinant of mental health and mental illness. The pattern of psychological distress and psychiatric disorder among women are different from those seen in men.

Even though there are no significant differences between the numbers of men and women who experience a mental health problem overall, some problems are more common in women than in men. Gender differences are seen in age of onset of symptoms, clinical features, frequency of psychotic symptoms, course of disease, social adjustment and long-term outcome in case of severe mental disorders.

Some disorders are more common in women such as depression and anxiety. There are also certain types of disorders that are unique to women. For example, some women may experience symptoms of mental disorders at times of hormone change, such as perinatal depression, premenstrual dysphoric disorder, and perimenopause-related depression. When it comes to other mental disorders such as schizophrenia and bipolar disorder, research has not found differences in the rates at which men and women experience these illnesses. But women may experience these illnesses differently – certain symptoms may be more common in women than in men, and the course of the illness can be affected by the s*x of the individual. Researchers are only now beginning to tease apart the various biological and psychosocial factors that may impact the mental health of both women and men.

About 25% of people who die by su***de are women. Again, women's greater emotional literacy and readiness to talk to others about their feelings and seek help may protect them from suicidal feelings. Being a mother also makes women less likely to take their own life.

The status of women in the society has been changing fast due to multiple factors such as urbanization, industrialization, increased level of education, awareness of rights, and media influence. More and more women prefer to be engaged in some kind of employment, so that they can contribute financially to their family. Although, larger sections of women from all socioeconomic classes are employed outside the home; this neither relieves them from their domestic duties nor does this change their social position significantly. For centuries, the differences between men and women have been socially defined and distorted through a lens of s*xism in which men assumed superiority over women and maintained it through domination. Thus carrying out duties and responsibilities both at home and workplace overstrains a married working woman, thereby leading to various psychological problems like role conflict, job strain, mental fatigue, stress, anxiety, frustration, depression, anger, phobias, and other social and emotional distress. All of these problems can interactively affect the mental well-being of working women and more so in married working women. Studies have shown that working women have poor mental health and higher level of depression compared to nonworking women.

Mental disturbances frequently occur during late pregnancy and in the postpartum period. Post-partum blues is the most common illness affecting 50-80% of new mothers. Low attendance in hospitals can be explained partly by lack of availability of resources to women, attributing it to greater stigma attached to women’s mental illness that restricts help-seeking in public health facilities. Women are less empowered due to lesser opportunities of education and respectable employment.

Some women find it hard to talk about difficult feelings and 'internalise' them, which can lead to problems such as depression and eating disorders. They may express their emotional pain through self-harm, whereas men are more likely to 'act out' repressed feelings, and to use violence against others.

Women's increased life expectancy means they are more likely than men to outlive their partner and move into residential care. This means they are more at risk of depression associated with psycho-social factors. Older people are often faced with more difficult life events and daily stresses than younger people and this may explain why they have a slightly increased risk of depression.

To contribute to the improvement of mental health of women concerted efforts are required at family, social, political, economic and legal levels. It should incorporate physical and mental health across the life cycle beyond just reproductive and maternal health.
Education, training and interventions targeting the social and physical environment are important for addressing women’s mental health. It is essential to develop and adapt strategies which improve social status of women, remove gender differences and increase awareness of their rights.

18/06/2020

ANOTHER ONE BITES THE DUST!

Another one bites the dust! There goes one more young and talented man from this world…

Nobody knows what was going on in his mind when he took the step to choose death over life…and nobody will ever know. Most people are shocked, as expected, since he was so young, good-looking, had a good career, made good money, and was successful by whatever other standards of success the society measures…and yet, he ended it all in one go.

There are a hundred hypothesis going around about why he did what he did. Was he depressed? Was it because he couldn’t get in the inner circle of Bollywood? Was it because biggies like Karan Johar and Alia Bhatt refused to acknowledge him? Or that recently signed movie contracts were canceled? Was it because of his manager’s su***de a few days earlier? Something to do with his mom’s death early in his life? And on and on it goes….

There are hundreds, maybe even thousands of young people like this who are possibly contemplating the same step right now, even as I write this. And let me ask you, how have you contributed to it?? And don’t tell me you haven’t!! Even though most of us will not be criminally liable for abetment of su***de, I can assure you we all have contributed to someone’s darkness in one way or another..

‘ Why are you depressed? You have everything going for you!’

‘ Stop being a crybaby! Get up and move on with life’

‘ Yeh sab kuch nahi hota, don’t do drama!’

‘ Look at your brother/neighbor/friend/colleague/(insert anyone)..how strong they are.. you should also be strong…’

‘ Think of your parents/child (children)/spouse…what will happen to them? You need to keep going for them’

‘ C’mon, cheer up.. just forget about all this sadness, let’s go for a movie/drink/party/etc…’

‘ There must’ve been some issue with him/her…financial/relationship/drugs, etc…that’s why he/she committed su***de.. otherwise nobody does this!’

‘ Itni si baat pe koi itna extreme step lene ki sochta hai kya? ’

‘ Everyone has problems in life.. what is so bad about your problems? Why can’t you deal with them? We have all dealt with bigger issues…’

AND THE LIST GOES ON……

Now ask yourself if you have never said any of these things to someone who has trusted you enough to share their pain with you…and be honest, please.

‘So what?’, you may ask, ‘I was just trying to help, by encouraging them, or trying to make them see the good things in their life! What’s wrong with that?’ Yes, maybe your intention was right. But, did you acknowledge their pain?? Did you even try to understand what they were going through, before disregarding it completely and jumping to giving unnecessary advice? Did you consider that your trying to compare them to others or yourself would put them down further in their own eyes and mind, when they were already in a well? Are you not guilty of pushing them further into the darkness that pervades their mind at that time?

Now think, if you would say any of those things to a person suffering from abdominal pain, diabetes, high blood pressure, any heart ailment, cancer, any infections, or for that matter even acne or hairfall!!! In all probability, you would suggest to them to go see a specialist. TO GET HELP FOR THEIR PROBLEM.

Attempting or committing su***de is not a small thing. Su***de is one of the leading causes of death in young adults in our country. India is the Depression capital of the world! Note that. We are allowing young people to end their lives, which could have been productive, joyful and fulfilling, not just for them, but also for their loved ones. Simply by not acknowledging their pain and their problem. By disregarding it. By deriding them. By judging them. By asking them to ignore it.

What would it take for us to be slightly more sympathetic and empathetic??? A little bit sensitive to someone else’s pain? A little more patient to hear someone out? A little less self-absorbed to see another person’s darkness? A little less egotistic to not be judgmental of others?

I get that not everyone can understand or empathize with a person who is going through tremendous emotional pain. But we can be a little patient to hear them out and ask them to seek professional help. Ask them to not ignore their pain, just as much as you wouldn’t ask them to ignore a constant headache. If you feel incapable of helping, ask your doctor what can be done to help this person.

Let us not allow one more celebrity su***de to go in vain. Sushant Singh Rajput was not personally known to many of us, yet his su***de has affected everyone in different ways. We will never know what made him take this step, but we can make sure that we learn a lesson from this, of not ignoring our own or anyone else’s emotional pain, only to regret it later.

If you or anyone you know is having thoughts of self-harm or going through emotional difficulties of any kind, I urge you to seek professional help. There is tremendous help available, you just need to ask!

Its not how smart you are, its how are you smart.
30/05/2018

Its not how smart you are, its how are you smart.

Many lessons for each of us from the video below so sharing it here . Two important words one does not want the say many times . ‘I Forgot’. It’s not…

11/05/2018

"Please remember me in your prayers," wrote Zaira Wasim

People as young as this are suffering silently with anxiety and depression....can we please start opening our minds to s...
11/05/2018

People as young as this are suffering silently with anxiety and depression....can we please start opening our minds to seek help without feeling ashamed or embarrassed??? Breaks my heart to read these stories where one is on the verge of ending their life.... but would not seek help for fear of being shamed...and this is only what we read about the famous ones...what about the common folks?

"Please remember me in your prayers," wrote Zaira Wasim

Good to see this coming from the judiciary....
04/05/2018

Good to see this coming from the judiciary....

This was the observation of the Delhi high court which refused to keep a woman away from her one-year-old daughter merely because she was a psychiatric patient.

Isn't this the situation everywhere?? Then why do we fail to recognise, acknowledge and attend to it?! Wake up world! Le...
17/04/2018

Isn't this the situation everywhere?? Then why do we fail to recognise, acknowledge and attend to it?! Wake up world! Let's all take mental health seriously!

MUMBAI: Mental health disorders have emerged as the leading, and surprising, reason for Mumbaikars to visit civic medical colleges according to the fi.

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