03/05/2026
Rudra Musings
Developing Sensitive Communication
‘A knife, dagger and arrow were fighting to decide who could
create the deepest wound. Meanwhile, words were sitting at
the back smiling as they watched all the fun.’ — Unknown
• Communication is not only about what we say, but how we behave, which is portrayed through our body language. Body language is non verbal; it’s the unspoken gestures that reveal our true emotions and intentions.
• Communication is not only about what we say but how we behave, which is portrayed through our body language.
• Words have the power to harm and do good, and thus must be used wisely. They are so powerful that abusive words can fell trees.
• Studies show that psychological and emotional wounds can have as much damage to the outcome of our lives as physical wounds.
• We should be careful when correcting others. It is said in the Bhagavad Gita, ‘Speaking truthful words that are pleasing, beneficial, not disturbing to others, comprises austerity of speech.’
• Encouragement has powerful effects.
• Casual teasing can be an element of a relationship but can lead to emotional harm if done repeatedly, even if done among good friends, let alone those who are not.
from the book Energize Your Mind by Gaur Gopal Das
Healing to Happiness