18/01/2021
This common mistake is slowly killing your productivity.
This may trigger some people, but please hear me out. Everyone who was successful just copied other people.
BUT, everyone who was unsuccessful also just copied other people.
You see, we as humans only learn through copying others.
You learned to speak by watching others do it, you learned math after watching your teacher do it.
So whether you like it or not, none of us are totally original.
But at the same time, we sorta are...
You see copying only becomes bad whenever you copy from just one person.
But when you pick up qualities and skills from LOTS of different people, well then it actually doubles back on itself and becomes original again!
So in that sense, we kinda all are original!
But back to my point about success...
We only reach "Success" if we copy the RIGHT people.
Which is why I cringe when people say "I'm gonna figure out how to do this on my own".
That is a sure fire way to get nowhere.
If you don't allow yourself to copy other "Successful" people who are where you want to be, then you will inevitably end up copying people who are not where you want to be.
We always end up picking up habits of the people we spend most of our time with, so please, be intentional about who you're copying.
From collection of-
Suvid Fadanvis
Psychologist
Behavioural Trainer