29/05/2022
OUR BODY IS EVER - CHANGING - DON'T BASE YOUR SELF WORTH ON IT!
If you are skinny, it's a problem .
If you are not skinny, that's a problem too.
If you are curvy, it's a problem.
If you don't have curves, that's a problem too.
Shaming or telling someone how they should or should not look and bashing then about their body type, that's a problem.
The problem isn't with your body, the problem is with what you think of it and what you think of yourself.
If you make self-love or body acceptance conditional, the truth is, you will never be happy with yourselves. The reality is that our bodies are constantly changing, and they will never remain exactly the same. If we base our self-worth on something as ever-changing as our bodies, we will forever be on the emotional roller coaster of body obsession and shame.
We can’t make loving ourselves and our bodies something we will do when we lose the weight or get to our goal. We have to do it now. We have to learn to love ourselves now or nothing will ever change.
Even I have body issues. Everybody does. I guess once you realise that everyone has body issues, even the ones you feel are perfect then you can be happy with the way you are.
Don't worry so much about your weight. We spend too much time thinking about it. There are way better things you can think about.
Be proud of who you are and not ashamed of how someone else sees you.
There are people out there who are struggling to lose weight and it's okay to come to terms with the fact that's its going to be a bit of a journey. Maybe slow, maybe fast, may be smooth, maybe full of hurdles, but what's important is to keep going on.
Not for outward beauty, not for that number on the weighing scale, but for your health and for yourself.
So, now when someone makes a comment about your weight or size take a step back and a deep breath. Ask yourself "So what?"
Then, after answering, ask yourself again, "So what?"
And then a third time—"So what?"
Chances are you'll come to realize that the comment made was not as dire, detrimental, or important for your self worth as made out to be.
Don't sacrifice your mental health to have a body that someone else wants you to have or because of a comment made out to you.
So, even though I may never be slim again like before or it may take a while to reduce that belly bulge, it's okay - frankly it reminds me of the life that I brought into this world and that I'm working towards a healthy body (not slim) makes me proud of myself!