
20/08/2025
Trauma bonding is a psychological response that happens when a person develops a deep emotional attachment to someone who is causing them harm. đź’”
It’s not about weakness—it’s about survival. When cycles of abuse are mixed with moments of affection, apologies, or promises of change, the brain gets stuck in a loop. The highs feel more intense because they follow painful lows, and the body’s stress response keeps the person hooked in the relationship.
This bond can feel confusing—why would someone stay with someone who hurts them? The answer lies in the push-and-pull cycle:
✨ Abuse or neglect → 💔 Pain and fear
✨ Small gestures of love → 💕 Relief and hope
✨ Repeat
Over time, this cycle makes it extremely difficult to leave, even when the relationship is harmful. Trauma bonds are not about love; they’re about survival instincts and emotional manipulation.
đź’ˇ Healing starts with awareness. Recognizing the signs of trauma bonding is the first step toward breaking free and learning what healthy love feels like.