19/09/2025
💭 “Not everything you feel should be said — some words can break what love took years to build.”
In relationships, words hold power. As a couple therapist, I’ve seen that communication can heal — but the wrong kind of communication can destroy intimacy and trust.
🚫 3 things you should NEVER tell your partner:
1. “You’re just like your mother/father” → comparisons breed resentment and trigger deep-rooted insecurities.
2. “You always/never…” → absolute statements close doors for dialogue and make your partner defensive.
3. “I don’t need you” → saying this might sound strong, but it creates emotional distance and kills intimacy.
👩⚕️ Therapist’s Perspective:
Healthy communication is not about holding back truth — it’s about expressing it with empathy and accountability. What you say in anger can shape how safe your partner feels in love.
👉 Want to know how to replace these harmful phrases with healthier ones? Stay tuned for my next reel on intimacy and couple communication 💌: couple therapy, couple psychology tips, relationship communication mistakes, what not to say in a relationship, intimacy in marriage, psychologist couple advice, relationship healing