20/03/2025
Being a giver is beautiful—but only when it comes from a place of strength, not expectation.
The past few days have been tough. I wasn’t keeping well, and life wasn’t exactly flowing smoothly. But in the midst of it all, something unexpected happened—some people, whom I never thought would, showed up for me. And a few, whom I once considered my closest, didn’t.
A few years back, this would have hurt me deeply. I would have overthought, drained myself, and questioned everything. “Why do I always give so much and not receive the same in return?” It felt unfair. But over time, through my energy work and spiritual journey, I realized something profound: it wasn’t them making me feel bad—it was me giving them the power to do so.
I used to believe that if I could be a giver, others should be too. But the truth is, not everyone has the same heart as you. And that’s okay. Some people are meant to teach us, not treat us the way we expect.
So here’s what I’ve learned:
✨ Give, but don’t lose yourself.
✨ Love, but set boundaries.
✨ Expect less, but don’t stop being who you are.
✨ And most importantly, never let someone’s lack of effort make you question your own worth.
You don’t have to change who you are—just learn where to place your energy. It takes time, balance, and awareness, but once you get there, life becomes lighter.
💡 Is this relatable? Let me know in the comments! Let’s see how many of us have felt this way. 💛
P.S. I’m thinking of doing something special for my community—maybe a little energy reset ritual for those who need it? Let me know if you’d be interested! 👇✨