
23/07/2025
In current times when therapy jargon has become popular it is extremely important to get to the depth of the concepts and not just superficially apply them.
Having boundaries are supposed to make the relationships better and richer and not the other way round.
When you draw a boundary its primary purpose is to save the “relationship” by having equal space for both people in it.
It’s not about saving yourself at the cost of the other.
We must be gentle, respectful and compassionate in drawing our boundaries so we treat the other as a human being with feelings too!
Yes, in the beginning your boundaries will be challenged and pushed but we are to continue sticking to them firmly but kindly.
Like Prentis Hemphill beautifully put it, “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.”