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Life coach Vasu, Pune (2025)

14/07/2025

Am I a very controlling mother !?

That's a deeply thoughtful question, and the fact that you're even asking it shows that you're self-aware and genuinely want to be the best version of a mother for your child. Let's explore this gently together.

You might be acting controlling if you often notice things like:

* Needing everything to go *your* way — schedules, food, choices, behavior.
* Getting upset when your child makes independent decisions, even small ones.
* Micromanaging your child’s emotions, words, or actions.
* Using guilt, fear, or comparison to influence them.
* Finding it hard to trust your child’s process or let them fail or experiment.

But *controlling behavior doesn’t make you a bad mother*. Often, it comes from:

* A deep desire to protect your child from pain or failure.
* Wanting your child to succeed or be their best.
* Fear of judgment from others about your parenting.
* Past wounds where *you* may have felt out of control or not safe.

Let’s ask gently:

1. 🌼 Do I listen more than I speak when my child expresses something?
2. 🌱 Do I allow my child age-appropriate choices and independence?
3. ☀️ Do I model calmness and trust rather than fear and pressure?

If you feel there’s room to soften, know this:

💛 You are not here to *control* your child — you are here to *guide* them with love, trust, and values rooted in your heart.

You can use a gentle **Ho’oponopono** for this reflection:

*“Dear child, I’m sorry if I’ve tried to control instead of guide. Please forgive me for letting fear speak louder than love. Thank you for being my teacher. I love you.”*

Would you like a hooponpono prayer for this...

Put "Trust " in the comments section

14/07/2025

Here’s more Ho’oponopono-based prayers and affirmations to help you scale your business with faith, flow, and divine alignment.

🌟 1. Ho’oponopono for Clearing Fear of Growth

> I’m sorry for all the parts of me that feel unsafe in expansion.
> Please forgive me for sabotaging my own success.
> Thank you for holding me gently as I grow.
> I love you, Divine, for reminding me that I am fully supported.

🌟 2. Ho’oponopono for Receiving More Clients, Abundance & Opportunities

> I’m sorry for any subconscious memories in me that resist receiving.
> Please forgive me for doubting that I am worthy of abundance and overflow.
> Thank you for opening doors I cannot see.
> I love you, Universe, for sending me aligned clients who are ready and grateful to work with me.

🌟 3. Ho’oponopono for Visibility & Showing Up with Confidence

> I’m sorry for hiding my light and being afraid to be seen.
> Please forgive me for thinking I’m not enough.
> Thank you for giving me a voice that heals.
> I love you, Life, for calling me to serve with courage and truth.

🌟 4. Ho’oponopono for Inspired Action & Divine Strategy

> I’m sorry for over-controlling, overthinking, and forgetting to trust.
> Please forgive me for believing I have to do it all alone.
> Thank you for divine downloads, clear next steps, and soulful strategy.
> I love you, Krishna, for guiding me exactly where I need to go.

🌟 5. Ho’oponopono for Financial Flow & Ease

> I’m sorry for any vows, memories, or blocks around money and success.
> Please forgive me if I ever believed money and spirituality can’t go together.
Thank you for healing my money story and activating divine flow.
I love you, Abundance, for dancing through my business with ease and grace.

13/07/2025

"I love to go outside but my husband doesn't like it what to do..."

This is a very real and common situation in many relationships — one partner loves being outdoors, the other prefers staying in. The key here is **honoring both your desires** while nurturing understanding and harmony. :

🌿 1. Understand His “Why”

Ask gently, without judgment:

* "What makes you uncomfortable about going out?"
* "Is it the crowds, heat, noise, or something else?"
Understanding the *root* of his resistance will help you approach the solution with empathy.

🌸 2. Express Your Joy Clearly

Tell him how being outside makes *you feel alive*:

“Going out makes me feel refreshed, connected to nature, and happier. It helps me be a better wife, mother, and person.”

Let him know it's not about escaping *him* — it's about refilling your energy.

☀️3. Find a Middle Path

You don’t have to go everywhere *together*. Try:

* Short outdoor dates he *might* enjoy (sunset walk, calm café, spiritual event)
* Going out *with friends or kids* sometimes, so you don’t feel deprived
* Inviting him gently but not forcing

💞4. Release Control, Cultivate Trust

Through a Krishna-centered lens:

"I honor his path, and I honor mine. Both are sacred. I release control and trust divine timing."

Use the Ho’oponopono prayer:

> "I’m sorry for the pressure I may be putting on our relationship.
> Please forgive me for not fully understanding your inner world.
> Thank you for this contrast that is helping me grow.
> I love you."

🌺 5. Daily Affirmation for You

> 🌼 “I honor my need to explore and breathe freely.
> I allow my husband to be as he is.
> I create harmony by staying true to myself — with love.”

Radhe Radhe
With love and compassion..

12/07/2025

Life is not beautiful..
Life is so unfair..
Life sucks..

Everyday situations can make me feel like this or worse than this...
But I know life had been very loving to me in all those times when I dint listen to this sabotaging talks of my Gremlin mind..

This kinda talks comes out of our attachment to miseries & showing how much we are suffering so you love me and we keep begging for love to others ..

This is self fulfilling prophecy full of self pity where you are allowing bad wolf to win every single time..

And then that's what takes over ruining life...

So if how is life fair for others...How are they winning at it...how are they making so much out of the same time which is also given to us..

Because they are also going through what you are going through but they are not allowing it to take charge of their LIFE...

Life is not happening to you,you are making it happen,if you get aware of this,it's the beginning to the paradise on the earth..

Since two days due to there was no water supply at our place I was feeling irritated but in the morning I just got up and wore this dress and told to myself...

Whatsoever may happen ,I am not going to allow me to feel like sh*t...I am beyond this...I am more than this..

I don't need the motivation,I am the motivation...
I an the inspiration for me ,for so many,role model for my kids,support of my Man and all these roles are going to be well played when I am treating myself the best way..

So here I am, without taking bath 🚿 😂 just feeling fresh like lavender 🪻🪻..

01/07/2025

Client :- "My 7 years daughter doesn't agree to do the homework,she always comes up with done with some or other reason ...I feel sad that we do so much for them and can't they just do this small thing..."

It’s completely natural to feel sad and even frustrated in moments like these. You love your daughter deeply, and you put your heart and energy into giving her a good life—so when she resists something as small as homework, it can feel like she's not valuing your effort. But let’s gently reframe this.

🌸 What's Possibly Going On?

At 7, children:

* Often **resist structure** as a way of asserting independence.
* May find homework **boring, hard, or not meaningful** to them.
* Feel **tired or overstimulated** after school, and just want to relax.
* Might use **excuses** not to avoid effort, but to **avoid discomfort**.

💖 A Loving Way to Approach It:

Instead of seeing her refusal as a lack of gratitude, try to look at it as a **communication**. Maybe she's saying:

“I’m tired… I need connection first… I feel pressured… I’m scared I’ll make mistakes.”

🌱 What You Can Do:

Here are a few gentle Krishna-centered parenting strategies:

1. *Create a Soft, Predictable Rhythm*

Instead of pushing:
🕰 “After milk and a 10-minute cuddle, we’ll do 15 minutes of homework together. Then you choose your fun time!”
This way, she feels safe in routine and seen in her needs.

2. **Use Krishna's Stories as Examples**

You might say:

“Even Krishna had duties—like taking care of the cows, helping his friends. And he did them joyfully because it helped others.”

Make homework a **service**, not a chore.

3. **Empower Her with Choice**

Ask:

* “Which one should we start with today?”
* “Do you want to write with pencil or colors?”

Feeling power **reduces resistance**.

4. **Acknowledge Her Feelings**

“I know homework is not fun sometimes. I hear you. Can I help make it easier?”

When she feels understood, she softens.

🕊️ Gentle Ho’oponopono for You:

> “I’m sorry, my child, for the pressure I unknowingly bring.
> Please forgive me for forgetting your inner world.
> Thank you for helping me grow in patience and love.
> I love you, just as you are.”

Save this...

29/06/2025

Dear Reva,Thank you so much for being such a lovely host as always ..Kids really enjoyed the time they had today and I too got to roam around for the first time without any worry about Harsh...

Close friends are truly a blessing in many deep and soul-nourishing ways. Here's how:

🌸 Why Close Friends Are a Blessing:

1. **Emotional Support**:
They hold space for your feelings, comfort you in sadness, and celebrate your joys as if they were their own.

2. **Authenticity**:
You don’t have to pretend around close friends. You can be messy, vulnerable, goofy, or silent—and still be deeply loved.

3. **Unconditional Presence**:
Even if time or distance separates you, they remain emotionally close, ready to support you in a heartbeat.

4. **Mirror to Your Growth**:
They reflect your strengths back to you when you forget them and lovingly call you out when you're straying from your truth.

5. **Laughter and Lightness**:
With them, even life’s heaviest moments feel lighter. Their presence adds sweetness to your journey.

6. **Divine Companionship**:
In spiritual truth, close friends are Krishna’s way of reminding us that love, care, and support are never far away.

29/06/2025

We expect them to understand what we want or expect from then.

For them it's like a 🧩 puzzle which they can't solve or understand & they feel like it's too much we are asking for & it's partially true when we keep ourselves in their shoes as they compare us with our mother's generation who were more about sacrificing their needs for others.

At the same time we have seen the pain beneath all that sacrifice & we know how our mothers blame our fathers all the time & all thr suppressed anger, frustration comes out at the end of their life journey where they are so unhappy,resentful for their lives of slavery..

🌷*Asking for love without begging or coming from lack means you're rooted in your worth, not your wounds. Here's how to do it gracefully, powerfully, and divinely:

🌸 1. *Begin with Self-Validation*

Before asking anyone for love, remind yourself:

*“I am lovable. I am worthy. I deserve affection and connection.”*

This shifts your energy from needing love to inviting love.

💖 2. *Express, Don’t Demand*

Instead of saying:

*"You never show me love."* (lack-based)
Try:
*"I feel most loved when you hug me or spend time with me. I'd love more of that from you."*

You're not begging — you’re *sharing what makes your heart blossom*.

🌿 3.*Use “I Feel” Language*

Speak from your heart, not accusation:

*“I feel a little distant lately and I’m really craving some closeness with you — maybe a gentle chat, a walk together, or cuddling tonight?”*

This opens the door without pressure.

🕊️ 4. *Stay Anchored in Devotion, Not Desperation*

You can pray like this:

*“Dear Krishna, I am ready to give and receive divine love. May my relationship be a channel of grace, not a battlefield of unmet needs.”*

This keeps your energy high, magnetic, and whole — not needy.

🪷 5. *Celebrate Small Moments of Love*

When he does show love, even a little:

* Acknowledge it.
* Appreciate it.
* Let your heart receive it fully.

The more you receive, the more love flows naturally — not because you begged, but because you *made space* for it.

Would you like me to write a *Ho’oponopono prayer or Krishna-centered affirmation !?

Put "Claim " in the comments.

13/10/2024

How can you manage it altogether ?
How can you do it all ?
Being a mother of two doing so many things at such a speed ..
I get adored for that so often..

Definitely there are also times when I feel like giving up, overwhelmed,crying ...Some days I just want to give up everything & run away where nobody is there ,just want to soak in Nature fully..Some days I just feel like crying out of nowhere ( it's the emotional breakout or burnout after working a lot definitely) but I go through everything not if graciously but for sure Hopefully..

I must say ,I am very very hopeful,optimistic...

I am very very determined on the paths I have chosen to be in...

Solution oriented -If this doesn't work out ,I will move on to the other things..

Thanks to My Father ,genetics plays major role..

But at the same time I hate some of the things which our mother's generation do wrong..
My traumas come out when they try to restrict me for something or other.

I love my freedom of being who I am..

I fought for it,I showed courage,I spoke up whenever needed & it was not easy..

There are different forms of DEVI (Goddess) living inside you, you need to take them out whenever needed...

Maa Kali is as much important as Durga,Lakshmi, Saraswati..

If Kali comes out of YOU,people may call you Insane or you have gone crazy but trust me She is needed whenever the destruction is needed..

Destruction of what ?
Destruction of your older version,old beliefs of others,control of others thinking over your life,old patterns ,old thinking.

Something must be burned, destroyed inside you to have that bright future..

So never be guilty for your Kali version coming out !
It was needed at that time for people to understand what is important for you & what they are not taking seriously..

But You need not always to be in Kali,cause it's not good for your health & anyone around you as there needs balance..

After destruction comes creation.

So taking a stand for yourself needs fights and it's okay if you have fought like very badly sometimes with someone..

Trust me you were not that ugly,cruel but it's just that darker part of you which needed to survive through that situation,phase..

Love.

07/10/2024

Seeing others doing their bests in their lives sometimes makes us feel overwhelmed and we feel like wowwwwww I want to be there,I wanted to be like this but see now where I am ,what am I doing with my Life...

But beware we are seeing only 10%-20% of their lives in those photos and videos ,we haven't seen the rest of 80% of their lives where they have cried,struggled ,failed and tried so hard to get up from the bed to do the same things consistently for so long...

Some may call them LUCKY ,but only truely successful people know it's their hard work attracted all the LUCK they have...

How to deal with the jealousy part that pops up or uncomfortable feeling or low feeling comes up with seeing their success...?

By Seeing we all are one and what one gives comes back to us...
We all are interdependant ,we all are connected..

They are just our highest versions manifesting what we are going to when we are going to put all those efforts for it...

But that doesn't mean you have to beat up yourself so madly to be there...

Just Evolve in your energies..
Just progress one step at a time every single day..
See how far you have already come from your past...
You are witnessing theirs but somebody else may also be witnessing your Journey and feeling the same for you..
So it's all relative just be You..

Love yourself more ..
Be compassionate and follow your passion..
For that one day, do not ruin your life...
For that one day ,Love your Life more and more ..

26/08/2024

"How lucky I am to have a husband with whom I can be myself & how lucky I am to be in a mutually respectful loving, nurturing relationship with him..."

Manjiri was getting ready for an event where she was accompanied by her husband while wearing a dress,doing makeup,one thought kept popping up in her mind, " Will Manish (her husband) be liking it or will he be angry or upset ?"

Do you or many women go through this,though we are called the modern women,aren't we afraid of,worried for or fearful of disliked or criticism or getting affected by the opinion of the husband...

This is true for those women who in their childhood were conditioned to please others by behaving in a so-called "Good child " way...

People pleaser trauma...

Where we put validation, approval & appreciation by others before our needs...

Where we help others but always have the expectations of being called "a good person " in return..

Where we feel used,manipulated,not understood & others are so selfish.

Where it's very much difficult to set boundaries & say no in the fear of disappointing others...

In the event,when Manjiri & Manish were clicking the photos,the photographer asked them to look into their eyes & then Manjiri thought it's been so long that though we are staying together we hardly made time to look into the eyes of each other..

In that moment,she looked into his eyes & said this is the last time fear exists in our relationship,now onwards I invite only Love, acceptance,care, companionship,happiness & peace.

All my childhood needs of love, approval, acceptance & feeling safe & secure are already met so are healed all my childhood traumas...

She worked on her fears,childhood traumas & repeated affirmations as she realised the problem is not outside but the ENERGY she carries with Her ...

No wonder all her affirmations turned into Reality...

Do you wanna manifest this in your relationship too ?

Stop settling over when you can Rule over...

Know your potential & create your own life of romance, fantasy, bond, connection...

Whatever you wish for,the desire for can be manifested into reality as it's in your desire you are chosen...

Type 'Love ' in the comments section...

08/08/2024

Getting triggered again by the same people, situation ?

I know the Pain...

And If you want to get rid of something totally ,we need to get to the roots of it...We need to find out the reasons why we are feeling that way...

It's so so easy to carry hatred,anger, resentment,frustration towards somebody but it only burns you....

Others are very accustomed to creating their own dramas and playing their roles in your life journey but it's always our choice to choose our character in that like you want to be the Hero or Villain in there..

Negative/ toxic people really drag you in their dramas & you give them the power to take away your peace of mind & you don't really safe around them,you feel you are always supervised by them,you are not supported by them..

If they are your in-laws,husband,relatives,colleagues,bosses it becomes very difficult to go ahead with the Helpless/ powerless attitude...

You need to SPREAD YOUR WINGS...

You need to understand how the precious moments of your life are getting away from you by thinking about them,in planning how to respond to their next move,how not to overpower them...

✍️First thing first - Start Journaling about what you are feeling,emotions,thoughts,beliefs..

✍️Become aware what triggers you & what feelings show up ? Are you not feeling safe & secure ? Supported ? Loved ? Targeted ? Not understood ? Valued ? Appreciated ? Approved ? Always judged ? Criticised?

✍️Identify the Pattern - When in the past you had gone through similar feelings..Connect the dots.

✌️BREAK THE PATTERN - Now learn the lesson ,that it's not they who are responsible totally, it's us who are addicted to that trauma pattern & so we are attracting that unhealed part of them again & again..

Our subconscious mind had created a core SELF CONCEPT about how we want to feel most of the time & unless we change it,we will always get such people & incidences to support those core beliefs of not supported,valued, loved,cared..

✍️Start today so that at least in some day,you will be able to take full responsibility of your Life where you are deciding every moves of where & what you want to be,your mind is living in present moment..

01/08/2024

Thank you ! Thank you ! Thank you ! For showing up for yourself and others Dear Sonam...Your this act of courage to come in front of the camera and share what healing was meant for you gonna inspire so many others...

And you really pointed it all so well,short and crisp..

And seeing you changing, transforming into totally new,carefree, worry free,stress-free journey is so awesome 😎...

It feels so so awesome 😎 when you are dancing with full energy and killing all those excuses ...

You are blessed and going to be blessed in every area of life just release all your fears and limiting beliefs...Keep taking actions as you are doing already and no doubt we are going to be in this journey for a long long time ,creating miracles,feeling abundance, sharing great lives ahead...

Stay tuned Dear...

Life coach Vasu

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