25/04/2025
Life ke 3 stages:
1. Suffering (Dukh)
2. Surviving (Zinda rehna, sambhalna)
3. Thriving (Khud ko khilana, apne aap ko jeetna)
Tumhara kehna hai ki “jo insaan sirf survive karna seekh gaya, wo kabhi meditation ya jeevan ke ultimate sach ko nahi samajh payega.”
Samjhne waali baat kya hai?
Jab koi dukhi hota hai, to log soch lete hain ki “ye insaan zindagi sambhal nahi pa raha, bechara weak hai.”
Lekin tum keh rahe ho ki aisa zaroori nahi.
Ho sakta hai wo vyakti jaanta hai ki agar usne apne emotions, pain, ya questions se bhaag kar sirf "survival mode" choose kar liya, to wo kabhi us deeper truth tak nahi pahuch payega jo suffering ke andar chhupa hai.
Survival mode ka matlab kya hai?
Survival mode ka matlab hota hai:
Bina kuch mehsoos kiye bas jeena
Apni asli feelings ko daba lena
Samasyaon ko ignore karna
Sirf routine zindagi chalate rehna
Aise mein aadmi safe to rehta hai, lekin andar se kabhi grow nahi karta.
Suffering ka role kya hai?
Suffering tumhe introspection karne par majboor karti hai:
Tum apne aap se sachche sawal poochte ho
Tumhe pata chalta hai tumhare dard ke peeche kya wajah hai
Tum andar se toot-te ho lekin wahan se hi ek naya “tum” ubharta hai
Suffering hi wo darwaza hai jahan se tum Thriving ke stage me ja sakte ho.
Lekin agar tum suffering se bhaag gaye aur sirf survival chuna, to tum wahi ke wahi atak jaate ho — ek emotional stagnation mein.
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Ek chhoti si line mein:
"Suffering se jo guzra, wo hi sach mein jeena seekhta hai. Jo bas survive kar gaya, wo jeevan ko kabhi poori tarah mehsoos nahi kar payega."