27/02/2024
Inclusion is the key to life on this planet. There are no two ways about it. Just look at everything in nature, in your body...everything exists mutually..inclusively. This concept we have that we can just go ahead and create something wonderful for ourselves while shunning everything we have done or been in the past is an illusion. Yes, every leaf on a tree is unique, but it cannot hope to survive if it chooses to shun the roots of the tree.
We are offered promises of grand change, the promise that nothing has to be as it was. Unfortunately, when it comes from a space of 'everything that has happened to you until now has been wrong, or you have been wronged', it keeps you from recognising the very potent role you have played in how your life has played out, and that it was the best thing for that time and since you created that, you can now uncreate it. You cannot hope to destroy a sand castle made by someone else, but you can do it if it is your own.
And yes, change is sometimes ( well, a lot.of.times) uneasy or maybe hard and sometimes change may involve pain and sadness and anger..not everything that transforms blooms like a rose. There is some intense stuff out there. The point of it all is to create a YOU that is at peace with everything that was before, and can accord it, its own space and then fill the remaining space with so much more.
You were not wrong. You did the best you knew. And that choice seemed like a good idea at that time. Now, lets create.