31/01/2025
He’s Here!
We had a BOY! Seeing his credentials when he arrived was the best surprise ever! And yep most of you guessed right!
Introducing…
Bob Raymond Rock Berresford
(AKA Bobby Berresford)
Born 23/01/25, a week early, weighing a small but mighty 6lb 12oz.
Labour didn’t exactly go to plan, turns out squatting reps on the bed to Fred Again was the vibe instead of the peaceful “breathe him out” approach! After five days of labour, I didn’t get my home birth, but I did deliver vaginally in hospital. In hindsight, I think my body was resisting because I didn’t want to birth at home unsupported or in hospital, where I didn’t want to be. But once we let go of the plan, having professional support made all the difference.
A huge shoutout to Carrie, the midwife with the most infectious energy, she was exactly who I needed. And to Will, who was my absolute rock, coaching me through every moment. Having that kind of support is something I will forever be grateful for.
This first week has been a whirlwind, sleep is a challenge, but breastfeeding is going well, and we’re embracing the hibernation life as a family of three. In Ethiopian culture, it’s typical to stay home for 40 days, focusing on rest and recovery with a series of remedies to regain strength. I plan on sharing more about these once I get a moment! So if I’m not fully responding to messages it’s because I’m trying to be super present.
I’ve been reflecting on the birth and already thinking about how I’d do things differently next time… but for now, just soaking in this wild, beautiful, exhausting ride. ❤️