New Day Counselling and Psychotherapy Services

New Day Counselling and Psychotherapy Services Healing is a journey. It starts from recognizing, analyzing, accepting then coming up with a tentative journey to undertake. I am ready to listen.
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What is this that is 'eating life' out of you? You need to feel vulnerable once in a while.

26/08/2025

πŸ’”Thoracic pain (mid-back)πŸ’”

Medical: Pain in upper/mid back. - the area around your heart.

Psychological: Unspoken grief, heartbreak, β€œcarrying weight between the shoulders.” πŸ’”

Thoracic Pain = Heart-Area Grief. The losses that were never expressed or processed. Most of the times we go to the hospital πŸ₯ and get diagnosed and placed on medication but none if not all tend to want to know why or how? I mean psychological analysis πŸ˜” or cause.

Thoracic pain isn’t always posture. Sometimes it’s grief sitting between your shoulders.”

Your mid-back remembers the heartbreaks your lips never spoke of.πŸ’”

Not all grief is about death β€” some is about the childhood you never had. Break ups, miscarriages etc

πŸ˜”That ache behind your heart? It’s not just muscle strain. It’s love lost, safety lost, childhood lost.

Grief doesn’t only cry through tears. Sometimes it cries through your spine. And it stays there for as long as it is not addressed.

✍️Medically : Thoracic pain = pain in the middle portion of the spine.

In my view, I have always told my clients that the thoracic spine is heart-adjacent β†’ symbolically holds grief, loss, heartbreak πŸ’”

Grief isn’t only about death:

Absent father = grief of abandonment.

Chaotic home = grief of lost childhood.

Neglected child = grief of unlived innocence.

Result: heaviness, back tension, emotional fatigue. I mean you are struggling to keep your internal home 🏑 together...πŸ₯Ί

Medically it is linked to: poor posture, scoliosis, herniated discs, or muscle strain 😟. And this is important to rule out any underlying issue or condition ✍️

Anyway,

Grief doesn’t always wear black clothes. Sometimes it hides in your body, in your spine, in your chest. 😟

Inner work helps you name it. Faith helps you carry it differently. Healing comes when you allow both to work together.

We are ready when you are
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But chronic stress + unresolved grief tighten thoracic muscles, reducing blood flow β†’ leading to real physical pain.

22/08/2025

Celebrating my 3rd year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. πŸ™πŸ€—πŸŽ‰

✍️ self expression - I have had to meet people who judge me and listen to my words from their wounded lenses.They then d...
22/08/2025

✍️ self expression - I have had to meet people who judge me and listen to my words from their wounded lenses.

They then draw a conclusion without wanting to know what my words really meant.

This is how I learnt to go through this. There was this day my former supervisor πŸ˜” mumbled so many words and as a team leader I was expected to behave in some type of way - the leader way

It is important to note that I was the Crowned Queen πŸ‘‘ of anger, judgement and cutting βœ‚οΈ people off. Oohh did I mention arrogance?

So this day, I felt that lump in my throat 😞😭 and I took time. He had reached me up there 🀣 I mean I was gut wrenched.

This was it...

I walked up to his office later πŸ˜” when I had breathed but that day I was determined to speak and not cry 😭😒 or feel patronized.

'Good afternoon, may I kindly have a brief of your time?' he agreed though hesitantly.

'I did not appreciate how you spoke to me earlier in front of my team, it is one thing to correct me and communicate your needs and it's another to demean me. I was not happy about that'.

Remember this was the first πŸ₯‡ time 😦 standing up for myself infront of a man. He started raising his voice.

He spoke so loud πŸ”Š I mean to send a message. I kept quiet πŸ˜” all this while while internally I was boiling.

'We are only two in this room and I am here next to you, why are you talking as if I am miles away. I am here. Please πŸ₯Ί don't shout'

That was the end of him shouting especially at me. The rest enjoyed the shouts while they cried. But whenever the whole team met plus me included. There were no shouts.

This was a πŸ‘ win for me and a lesson for me. He was also going through his own moments but that doesn't give excuses...

The quest is when will you rise above the self imposed judgement πŸ˜’

Self expression is easy, you only need to master when and how...

🌞 good morning
22/08/2025

🌞 good morning

24/06/2025

Going to bed with a heavy heart creates a surge in the episodes of anxiety and inhibits melatonin (sleep hormone) making you lose sleep.

Let's change it.

What are you grateful for today... Let's rewire the frequency...

List them down....

24/06/2025

And yes, masculinity in women is from the mother line. Mother wounds, what you learnt and saw them do. You learn as an apprentice from your Matriarchal line

18/06/2025

Protect yourself, the society is in β€œSURVIVAL MODE”

Your Vulnerability is Compared to that of a hanging Fruit Imagine vulnerability as a ripe fruit hanging low on a tree β€” ...
18/06/2025

Your Vulnerability is Compared to that of a hanging Fruit
Imagine vulnerability as a ripe fruit hanging low on a tree β€” soft, exposed, and within reach. It's not protected by height or thorns. It’s out in the open, available to be touched, plucked, bruised β€” or deeply appreciated and savored.

Yes,
This is how vulnerable you become as a woman in late 35-40 and you are single probably without a child Irma broken marriage - you be one vulnerable to a certain type of men who come on show what you have never experienced.

They love you. You feel it's genuine. You know something is wrong but you can't place your hands on it. You play along. You get into it. Soo deep. Deeper than the roots of a Jacaranda tree. Then boom πŸ’₯

Yes,

You become Vulnerable even as a young person falling in and out of love. Your energetic imprint screams 'See me, love, adore me, care for me'... The very things you didn't get as a child.

Bare minimum feels and sounds okay. You know it's not right but you can't ask for more because you have been told you are nagging. You stay, you hurting but what can you do? So you keep telling yourself things will change.

Yes,
You become Vulnerable to the point that addiction eat you up. Addiction eats every part of you. Anxiety is your forte. You live by it.

You can't stand up against that boss who looks down upon you. I know you need that work. But the more you take in. The more it will be hard to get back...

Yes,

You become Vulnerable and yes you can't stop πŸ›‘ yourself..that constant anger. That resentment you habour. Unfortunately you can't talk about it.
...

I mean, a hanging fruit πŸ“ is susceptible to anything... And yes to anyone even those that do not deserve it. The mere fact that it's hanging anyone can touch it, squeeze it, curse it, pluck it, eat it. It has no choice...

Are you the hanging fruit with no boundaries?
Are you the hanging fruit who can not make a decision and stick by it?
Are you the fruit that everyone can pluck at any time?

Hey?

✍️ Dorothy Omolloh

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15/06/2025

We are open for booking

15/06/2025

Happy Father's Day to all the fathers and πŸ’™ Hearts to all the fathers in heaven

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