New Day Counselling and Psychotherapy Services

New Day Counselling and Psychotherapy Services Healing is a journey. It starts from recognizing, analyzing, accepting then coming up with a tentative journey to undertake. I am ready to listen.
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What is this that is 'eating life' out of you? You need to feel vulnerable once in a while.

However bad it is 💔Please keep your hands above waterWave until someone reaches outWave until rescue 🛟 arrivesJust wave ...
09/10/2025

However bad it is 💔
Please keep your hands above water
Wave until someone reaches out
Wave until rescue 🛟 arrives
Just wave - call for help

Keeping your hands and head under is risky
It's lethal to your whole being
Please 🥺 wave and call out for help

Sometimes keeping your hands under is the only option - I know sometimes it can be very bad 😔

When you have waved a long time and no one is spotting you

Don't 🛑 stop
Hang on that hope
Just wave

One more time
Don't give up
You got yourself to save
Just wave

08/10/2025

It's not the stàb on the back that kílls, it's when you turn back and see who is holding the knìfe.💔

Healing doesn’t hurt because of pain.It hurts because of truth.The kind of truth you can’t unsee—that the love wasn’t lo...
05/10/2025

Healing doesn’t hurt because of pain.
It hurts because of truth.
The kind of truth you can’t unsee—
that the love wasn’t love,
the loyalty was convenience,
the family was survival.

Pain fades. But truth?
Truth lingers.
It burns.
It reshapes you.
And the day you stop running from it—
that’s the day healing actually begins.”

✍️ Dorothy Omolloh
Pic : Karura Forest

🥀 Emotional CannibalismShe thought she was loving him.Every late-night call she answered, every piece of herself she pou...
05/10/2025

🥀 Emotional Cannibalism

She thought she was loving him.
Every late-night call she answered, every piece of herself she poured out, every “it’s okay, I understand” when it wasn’t—she believed it was love.

But he wasn’t receiving her love. He was feeding on it.

Every time his ego cracked, he reached for her tenderness, not to connect—but to patch himself. When his pride felt small, he used her devotion to stand taller. When his insecurities screamed, he silenced them with her energy.

She thought she was building a bond.
In truth, she was being hollowed out.

That’s what emotional cannibalism looks like:

One person survives by consuming another’s vulnerability.

One calls it love.

The other is left empty, doubting their worth.

The cruelest part? Emotional cannibalism doesn’t leave scars you can point to. It leaves confusion, shame, and exhaustion—because the victim walks away wondering why love made them feel less instead of more.

Love should feed two souls.
Cannibalism feeds one and starves the other.

Interestingly, Did you know that your grandmother carried part of you inside her womb❓But how❓ Well. A female fetus is b...
01/10/2025

Interestingly, Did you know that your grandmother carried part of you inside her womb❓

But how❓ Well. A female fetus is born with all the eggs she will ever have in her lifetime...

So when your Grandmother was carrying your Mother in her womb. You were a tiny egg in your Mother's ovaries.

The three of you have been connected for a very long time...

Women are amazing❗

May you heal 🥺🙏
20/09/2025

May you heal 🥺🙏

💔Dorothy, your words did hurt me 😭. Yes I was offended 😯- immediately I heard these my heart sunk on that call 🤙 We are ...
19/09/2025

💔Dorothy, your words did hurt me 😭. Yes I was offended 😯- immediately I heard these my heart sunk on that call 🤙

We are still in seasons 😔. I met him during one of the lowest moments in life 🧬. I guess this was and is the 4th one - the loss of my mother, the day my relationship ended, the day of my betrayal and last the day I lost my friend 💔

The only thing I could offer 🫴 to the family was my services when they needed me at no cost whatsoever ✅

So a day last week I received a call 🤙 the voice on the other side sounded familiar and yes it was him. He introduced himself and after the pleasantries he hit 🎯 the nail on the head 🗣️

I need your help, the mother to my child has refused. She can't allow me to see the child. She is my only daughter. She is only 10 yrs 💔. She can't speak for herself and whenever I listen 👂 to her speak it doesn't feel like my daughter - and the story went on

With no biases or any dual interest 👂 I listened. I was to do a second review on the emotional and mental state of the child that would be used in the court 💔

I was already breaking for the child. My stomach is slowly turning and I am having the image 😭 of the child and her possible future 🙏

We agreed that he would reach out to the lawyer and get things 🙂 of course my interest is now entirely with the child 🚸 and what is best for her - the main reason one day and too soon we will revive safe homes belonging to the state 🚸🥺

We would later talk the next day and now I had a different thought 🤔. Of course before I go raw with the hurting thoughts and truth 😞😭 I must psychologically prepare my client and ofcourse request for their permission

He said yes- go ahead

You see my dear, I really acknowledge the fight you have put on. For the past 6 yrs. Sometimes the question ❓ is when do we say enough is enough? When do we learn to let go.

When do we need to let go and let everything fall 🍂 and metamorphosize?

I am proud 🦚 of you to have put on the fight. But please it's time to release the rope. When both of you pull hard it's the girl that is hitting the dealy rock 🪨

She is hating herself even more. She is hurting in ways you can't fathom - I went ahead and explained how father wounds and mother wounds affect

For 4 hrs he listened 😔. I will think about this - those were his words 😔

Exactly a week today he called -

Dorothy I was very mad 😡 with you and I have realy sat and thought about your words. They ring in my head so clearly.

I have decided to loosen the rope. I would not want to put that innocent 😇 child in a place that she needs to choose.

That would be sad 😢. I would not be happy as a father. The memories she has of me in her younger days 💞 will suffice for now and yes I will also hold them dearly

He called with an elated voice
A man feeling free 🆓
Seems like he had just tasted freedom after 7 yrs
All along it was in his hands but he wasn't privy to it

My question ⁉️ to you?

You have the power in your hands,
What are you holding on that you need to release
What is in your heart that is causing you that heart ache?

Why are you still holding on?

What is your season?

At the beginning of the year 2024 let me just throw it back towards the closure of 2023 our office line blew up with cal...
04/09/2025

At the beginning of the year 2024 let me just throw it back towards the closure of 2023 our office line blew up with calls 🤙📞 and the main callers were men/teens and Mid ages.

Break up, Suicidal ideation battles, betrayals and drug addictions not forgetting the giant we rarely want to talk about - ma********on.

Of course we managed these remarkably and this is among the reasons I went on a long holiday.

That is my gift 🎁 program to self. Save one marriage bigger gift 🎁 (travel) save a life (local gifts 🎁😀)

One of the cases that stood out was of one gentleman who was working in a business set up next to our apartment.

He had been viewing my status, at least he charges my phone when KPLC decides that we should not be having light in the apartment phase 1 or 2.😔

So, one day after charging my phone 📱 I sent him a thank you token (this is a tradition I learnt from a beautiful soul). I saved his number and so did he.

Anyway, one evening from the office he followed ' Madam (how he calls me) I was waiting for you, my wife has left with my son, I can't tell how I woke up, I bought (suicidal drugs) I was to rest and wake up take them and end it all'

🫂 I almost hugged him for staying alive. In my head 🗣️ I quickly thanked God for saving his life. He was disturbed 😧, he felt rejected, he felt left out, he felt not appreciated

He was out of it, 'Madam, what do I do?', 'Madam, I am tired, I wanted to open a business for her, I had saved enough, it was to be a surprise on her birthday 🎂 in a month's time,'

She left with my boy, Her mother is not 🚫 picking my 🤙. Aah he ranted.

If there is one thing that makes me feel good - to see men ranting. At least they are getting it out.

For the next few days I would be checking on him to just be sure we are out of the woods. When I was sure he was, I stopped 😐 so that he would also not feel weak.

Yesterday, as I walked past their place, I overheard his colleagues talk in my native language - I interjected with a smile 😁 just to alert them -I see you

One of the whom he had given my number 😞 didn't know how to strike a conversation with me. When I interjected - he smiled and mentioned that now he had the courage to reach out.

My mission on this earth 🌎 is to save as many souls as I am a enabled 💝

Mend lives and redirect them to the intended destination.

The only twist 🪢 is: I am ready and I shall wait for you to be ready

So,

I am ready when you are

www.newdaycounseling.co.ke

The sad fact 😞 is that Closed-ended conversations don’t just silence children in the moment; they create adults who can’...
03/09/2025

The sad fact 😞 is that Closed-ended conversations don’t just silence children in the moment; they create adults who can’t fully be seen, even when they desperately want to.

These then leak into adulthood and yes they become nightmares to these individuals in their intimacy moments, professional lives, and often than not become issues in their marriage lives...

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