Present Marriage Counselling

22/09/2025

A woman wanting clarity isn't arguing or nagging. Stop trying to weaponize tough conversations and learn to communicate. When someone seeks clarity, it's often because they want to understand your perspective, feelings, or intentions. They're not trying to attack or criticize you; they're trying to have a meaningful conversation.

Tough conversations can be challenging, but they're also opportunities for growth, understanding, and deeper connection. By approaching these conversations with empathy, active listening, and an open mind, you can build trust, resolve conflicts, and strengthen your relationship.

Instead of labeling someone's desire for clarity as "nagging" or "arguing," try to see it as a sign of their investment in the relationship. They're taking the time to think about the issue, to formulate their thoughts, and to express themselves. This takes courage and vulnerability.

By responding defensively or dismissively, you're not only shutting down the conversation but also sending a message that you're not interested in listening or growing. Instead, try to approach the conversation with curiosity, asking questions, and seeking to understand the other person's perspective.

Effective communication is key to any successful relationship. By learning to navigate tough conversations with empathy and understanding, you can build a stronger, more resilient connection with your partner. So, next time someone seeks clarity, try to see it as an opportunity to connect, to grow, and to deepen your understanding of each other.

22/09/2025

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08/08/2025

When you s*xually starve your partner remember it will get to a point where even a breathe of an opposite s*x will arouse them.. temptations will creep in, infidelity will be the result.
Never leave them vulnerable.

08/08/2025

Offer!❗❗❗This weekend we are offering all counselling services at 1k per session which includes couples counselling
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Only 5 people.
A session lasts for 1hour plus.
This applies for online counseling only.(Whatsapp or Phone call)

03/07/2025

Infidelity is not about how a wife looks. The prettiest woman can be cheated on with a woman who has way less. It is also not about success or celebrity status of a man as poor unknown men do it too.

Infidelity is about the mindset of impunity, the belief that nothing will happen and the lack of true understanding of what it means to be a husband. Even husbands in polygyny often do it too, many of the polygynous marriages beginning that way.

Unfortunately, many of us were raised with this mindset and only begin to try and get better in the marriage. Some get better but for the rest, it proves too much to achieve.

That’s the current state of marriages. While we can keep counselling husbands and helping to be better today, the long term solution is in how we raise men and premarital counselling.

15/06/2025

Happy father's day to all dads

08/05/2025

Wewe ni mwanaumë aina gani anashauriwa na wazazi adi kwa maneno ya kitandã.
Yaani wewe uezi zilikiliza mkeo,kila kitu lazima uulize mamakø adi ukitaka kuongeza mtoto ivo Ivo Tu.
Mke akikuomba lotion,unauliza wazåzi bado

Sijasema kuzikilizå wazazi ni mbaya,lakini listen to your wife ju mamakø ako na bwanakë
Save you marriagemë stop being introvërt Jenga ndoa yako achā upuz! ushakuwā mtu mzimã.Some ldeas are meant for couplês usiletë 3rd party
Byee , Good night , it's raining let' me do the necessary

08/05/2025

04/03/2025

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Marital counseling at an affordable fee.

13/01/2025

Men !!

Stop Tolerating Bad Character Disguised as Mood Swings ….

It’s time to draw the line. Too many men have been guilt-tripped into accepting terrible behavior from women under the excuse of “mood swings.” Let me tell you this straight—bad character is not mood swings, it’s a lack of discipline and home training. No disciplined person allows their emotions to dictate their behavior towards others. This nonsense of tolerating rudeness, disrespect, and outright aggression in the name of “she’s having a bad day” needs to end.

We all have bad days. Everyone, men and women alike, goes through stress, frustration, and moments of emotional overwhelm. But the difference between someone with character and someone without is discipline. Discipline means keeping your emotions in check and ensuring that your frustrations don’t spill over into how you treat others. It means understanding that your feelings don’t justify disrespect or poor behavior.

If you’re dealing with a woman who consistently lashes out at you, disrespects you, or acts like the world owes her grace because she’s in a “bad mood,” you’re dealing with someone who lacks self-control. And let me warn you—this is not a temporary issue. It’s a pattern, a reflection of deeper immaturity and entitlement.

Men,

stop condoning this.
You wouldn’t tolerate a man behaving this way, so why make excuses for a woman? If she’s mature, she’ll know how to manage her emotions without turning you into her emotional punching bag. If she’s disciplined, she’ll treat you with respect regardless of how she’s feeling. Relationships are about mutual respect, not emotional dumping grounds.

Here’s the truth:

bad character ruins relationships, homes, and lives. If she can’t control herself now, what do you think will happen when life throws real challenges your way? What will happen when the pressures of marriage, parenting, or financial stress come into play? Mood swings today become endless drama tomorrow.

10/10/2024

When you expect a wife to keep apologising to you even you are wrong, it is not "being the head of the home", it is being abusive.

Many wives today have been pummeled into physical and psychological abuse to the point they believe it is their duty to apologise even for being correct. They have been sold the narrative that it is always the work of the wife to make it work by apologising to her husband no matter what.

Marriage has also been painted as the ultimate so they'd do whatever they can to protect what they have, even if it means being in daily abuse.

Gender doesn't define who is wrong or who needs to apologise, actions do. If you have been wronged, you should not have to apologise "peace to reign" because in truth, that is not peace.

Nobody is born to be correct everytime, sometimes you'd be wrong in marriage. Apologising takes nothing away from you. If anything, it strengthens your position, making your marriage healthier.

But no, many have an overload of ego so for occupying the position of husband, they can never be wrong culturally and even religiously. For others, it's because they grew up seeing mothers swallow abuse because they couldn't afford to leave, they believe it is how it should be.

This, we need to change.

23/09/2024

For marriage counseling services call 0702459228/0702585500
For as low as 1k per session.