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03/07/2025

Infidelity is not about how a wife looks. The prettiest woman can be cheated on with a woman who has way less. It is also not about success or celebrity status of a man as poor unknown men do it too.

Infidelity is about the mindset of impunity, the belief that nothing will happen and the lack of true understanding of what it means to be a husband. Even husbands in polygyny often do it too, many of the polygynous marriages beginning that way.

Unfortunately, many of us were raised with this mindset and only begin to try and get better in the marriage. Some get better but for the rest, it proves too much to achieve.

That’s the current state of marriages. While we can keep counselling husbands and helping to be better today, the long term solution is in how we raise men and premarital counselling.

15/06/2025

Happy father's day to all dads

08/05/2025

Wewe ni mwanaumë aina gani anashauriwa na wazazi adi kwa maneno ya kitandã.
Yaani wewe uezi zilikiliza mkeo,kila kitu lazima uulize mamakø adi ukitaka kuongeza mtoto ivo Ivo Tu.
Mke akikuomba lotion,unauliza wazåzi bado

Sijasema kuzikilizå wazazi ni mbaya,lakini listen to your wife ju mamakø ako na bwanakë
Save you marriagemë stop being introvërt Jenga ndoa yako achā upuz! ushakuwā mtu mzimã.Some ldeas are meant for couplês usiletë 3rd party
Byee , Good night , it's raining let' me do the necessary

08/05/2025

04/03/2025

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13/01/2025

Men !!

Stop Tolerating Bad Character Disguised as Mood Swings ….

It’s time to draw the line. Too many men have been guilt-tripped into accepting terrible behavior from women under the excuse of “mood swings.” Let me tell you this straight—bad character is not mood swings, it’s a lack of discipline and home training. No disciplined person allows their emotions to dictate their behavior towards others. This nonsense of tolerating rudeness, disrespect, and outright aggression in the name of “she’s having a bad day” needs to end.

We all have bad days. Everyone, men and women alike, goes through stress, frustration, and moments of emotional overwhelm. But the difference between someone with character and someone without is discipline. Discipline means keeping your emotions in check and ensuring that your frustrations don’t spill over into how you treat others. It means understanding that your feelings don’t justify disrespect or poor behavior.

If you’re dealing with a woman who consistently lashes out at you, disrespects you, or acts like the world owes her grace because she’s in a “bad mood,” you’re dealing with someone who lacks self-control. And let me warn you—this is not a temporary issue. It’s a pattern, a reflection of deeper immaturity and entitlement.

Men,

stop condoning this.
You wouldn’t tolerate a man behaving this way, so why make excuses for a woman? If she’s mature, she’ll know how to manage her emotions without turning you into her emotional punching bag. If she’s disciplined, she’ll treat you with respect regardless of how she’s feeling. Relationships are about mutual respect, not emotional dumping grounds.

Here’s the truth:

bad character ruins relationships, homes, and lives. If she can’t control herself now, what do you think will happen when life throws real challenges your way? What will happen when the pressures of marriage, parenting, or financial stress come into play? Mood swings today become endless drama tomorrow.

10/10/2024

When you expect a wife to keep apologising to you even you are wrong, it is not "being the head of the home", it is being abusive.

Many wives today have been pummeled into physical and psychological abuse to the point they believe it is their duty to apologise even for being correct. They have been sold the narrative that it is always the work of the wife to make it work by apologising to her husband no matter what.

Marriage has also been painted as the ultimate so they'd do whatever they can to protect what they have, even if it means being in daily abuse.

Gender doesn't define who is wrong or who needs to apologise, actions do. If you have been wronged, you should not have to apologise "peace to reign" because in truth, that is not peace.

Nobody is born to be correct everytime, sometimes you'd be wrong in marriage. Apologising takes nothing away from you. If anything, it strengthens your position, making your marriage healthier.

But no, many have an overload of ego so for occupying the position of husband, they can never be wrong culturally and even religiously. For others, it's because they grew up seeing mothers swallow abuse because they couldn't afford to leave, they believe it is how it should be.

This, we need to change.

23/09/2024

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27/06/2024

She doesn't trust you because you're not aware of her emotional needs. Mostly, her needs to feel seen, heard, met by, and safe with you. Emotional awareness involves recognizing and understanding her feelings, which is crucial for building trust.

When you fail to acknowledge her emotions, she may feel invisible and unimportant, leading to a breakdown in trust.

She doesn't trust you because she feels neglected when her emotional needs are not prioritized. It's not enough to merely go through the motions of a relationship.

She needs to feel that you are genuinely engaged and invested in her well-being. When you consistently overlook her emotional needs, she may start to question your commitment and reliability.

She doesn't trust you because you haven't shown consistency in meeting her emotional needs. Trust is built over time through consistent actions and behaviors that reinforce reliability and care.

She doesn't trust you because you haven't made her feel safe emotionally. Emotional safety is critical in any relationship.

It allows individuals to express themselves freely without fear of judgment or rejection. If she doesn't feel safe with you, she is likely to withhold her true feelings and thoughts, further eroding trust.

15/05/2024

NARCISSISTS HATE CUDDLING

You may assume narcissists like cuddling because they are extremely flirtatious, conceited, and infatuated with themselves. But if there is one thing you can be sure of, it is that narcissists do not like physical touch, especially cuddling, for the same reasons that you might find cuddling a nuisance. For them, cuddling is a nuisance too😢😢😢😢😢.

When they indulge in this act, it is because of the advantages that cuddling offers them.
Narcissist is afraid of attachment they fear becomes attached to prevent them from getting hurt😳😳.

If they were not shown love as a child and live through it then they have no need for cuddling. Also, the mission they are on is to be a player or abuser AND THEY LOVE IT. They cannot stand being that close to anyone. They don't like being touched. People are just pawns to the Narcissist. Even their family members. If you are married to one and you expect him to be all over touching you, Jesus might come sooner than the touch🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔.

When it comes to intimacy, IT IS ABOUT THEM, you don’t touch them, they touch where and when they want, otherwise their default setting is “nduthi style”😳😳😳😳😳😳😳, jumping in, kicking in, jumping out, and “lying dead” waiting for the next round which is likely to come after vision 2030 is fully implemented🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃.

NOW YOU KNOW

06/04/2024

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