Awaken Love Kenya

19/07/2025

I see shattered, you see whole,
I see broken, you see healed
You are healing me piece by piece.
There is nothing too dirty, that you can't heal.

17/07/2025

19/06/2025

It had been two months and counting since I last stepped into a church. For someone who
had once been immersed in ministry—serving faithfully in the children’s department,
leading a Bible study home fellowship, and attending deliverance church services weekly—
my absence spoke volumes. I didn’t leave because I stopped believing in God. I left because I
felt like a fraud. You see, I had secrets. Secrets that tormented me daily. I couldn’t bear the
idea of standing in front of those young children, singing “Jesus Loves Me” while knowing I
was tangled in a lifestyle that contradicted the very gospel I preached. I feared that living a
double life would bring harsher judgment than simply choosing one path—and so I chose
silence and withdrawal. Some congregants noticed. They asked, “Where have you been?” I
brushed them off, thinking they were nosy. But now, I realize that those were not
accusations—they were expressions of genuine concern. Sometimes we misinterpret love as
intrusion when we’re hurting.
I began to isolate. Not just physically—but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Isolation, a
major sign of depression, had become my default. In psychological terms, it’s a defence
mechanism—distancing oneself from others to avoid shame, confrontation, or pain. I felt like
I had wronged God, and instead of living a lie, I chose solitude. I withdrew from the world.
Isolation wasn’t just my refuge—it was my punishment. In isolation, everything around you
becomes heavy. Conversations feel like burdens, laughter like noise. The very presence of
others grates against your soul. You begin to see yourself through distorted lenses—
worthless, unlovable and inadequate. That’s the devil’s playground.

*To be continued*
Are you isolating? 🤔

11/06/2025

There is a place of jealousy in marriage.

The new trend in relationships is that you are not and should not feel bad or jealous when you see your spouse or fiance with another person. OK I just don't mean see with your 👀 but having a s*xual relationship.

Truth is that Faithfulness is a key Pillar in any s*xual relationship.

Some people avoid healthy jealousy because they are afraid of the possessiveness and anger that unhealthy jealousy represents.

Our covenant marriage with God requires us to be faithful to Him and worship Him alone. God is jealous for His people. This may surprise you, but s*x is most often used in the Bible in reference to this concept. Over and over again, God describes the idolatry of His people as prostitution, wh***ng, and a s*xually unfaithful wife. When God’s people cheated on Him, He expressed righteous anger. They had given away something precious that belonged exclusively to Him. God’s love includes a holy jealousy for us.

If God’s covenant love is the picture on the front of the puzzle box, then holy jealousy also has a place in every marriage covenant. There is a healthy jealousy between a husband and wife that builds the trust necessary to experience true intimacy. In essence, God says to us, “Don’t pretend to love Me with your lip service all the while giving your heart to the things of the world. Don’t be lukewarm. Make a decision. Do you love Me or not?” God’s jealousy expresses the invitation to be in an authentic relationship with Him.
This same thing applies to your marriage. Either you are committed to one another or you’re not. Don’t wear the ring and title while giving yourself to someone else. If you say you love your spouse, show it with your character. A man should feel jealous if his wife tries to capture the attention of other men. A woman should feel jealous if her husband shares intimately about their marriage with a female friend. It’s normal and healthy to feel angry if your spouse looks at p**n or fantasizes about another person. You belong exclusively to each other in your s*xual relationship.
Within the promise of covenant, our love is expressed through faithfulness. Otherwise, the relationship is jus

11/06/2025

Lily's Book Club

10/06/2025

If you thought a great s*x life is measured by the frequency of it..thwn think again. If you thought it is measured by the intensity of the act then think again. If ever you thought it's by the styles only then think again.

S*xual integrity means that you and your spouse will be working toward each of these four pillars of covenant love.

Pursuing s*xual integrity as a married couple means that your s*x life will increasingly be characterized by four qualities or pillars that are true about the way God loves His people.

10/06/2025

I think there are even deeper reasons why we don’t invite God into our s*x lives … either within the church conversation or in the privacy of our own bedrooms. S*x is often associated with shame.

28/05/2025

Where did soul ties come from 🤔 💭?

When you surrender your life to God, including your s*xuality, you can have confidence that God is with you no matter what trials you might face. You are walking in His will, even if that means difficult circumstances. God promises to remove the most important consequence of our sin: shame. “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” (Rom. 8:1, emphasis added).
This is why David could rejoice at God’s forgiveness for his s*xual sin, even though he still dealt with some very real consequences. “Blessed is the one whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered. Blessed is the one whose sin the LORD does not count against them and in whose spirit is no deceit” (Ps. 32:1–2). David knew that God was with him, strengthening him, even as he waded through the painful consequences of his past

27/05/2025

22/05/2025

Awaken Love Classes are out of the ordinary! They are extraordinary 😍
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It's for the wives. A wife can be a mother of young adults, a mother of 10 children, a mother of children to come..yes even for you who is courting. Age doesn't matter! Your work title/church title doesn't matter!

It allows women to have a safe space to share about their s*xual life..the issues tucked away in silence and some in shame... not knowing who to trust

It is guided by the Bible with Biblical knowledge and understanding.

Safe space to walk back time and understanding the backstory; what messages have you heard and how are they shaping your life?

It does not have vulgar language. We explore deeply and extensively, giving respect to each other and to God.

We explore why God took time to make man and woman different, yet each has a profound effect on each other.

This May, being mental health month, we have a special offer. For only 1000/-.!!! 2 hours per session. For 3 sessions.

💃 💃 The more the merrier!

I (Lily Namarome, your Christian therapist) passionate about marriages will be taking you through.

For more information
📞 0715293864
lily.namarome@awakenlove.co.ke
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22/05/2025

A bold reflection on the rise of religious syncretism, New Age ideologies, and the Church’s silent compromise. Discover why standing firm in Christ is more urgent than ever

A fool says in his heart, “There is no God.” — Psalm 14:1

Read the blog below👇https://awakenlove.co.ke/the-religion-of-everything-a-wake-up-call-to-the-church/

21/05/2025

What's your backstory?
*xEducation