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LEAN on ME Counsellors, mwea, Nairobi (2025)

17/02/2024

DEAR MARRIED MEN,

√•Nobody will tell you this but I will;
If you want to go far in life, love your wife, take good care of her, make her happy and her prayers will open doors for you.

√•Remember when things go down healthwise or financially for you, only your wife will feed you and will be there for you. Most of your friends and side chicks will abandon you!

√•And lastly, that lady you think is better than your wife, it's because she is not living with you. Bro, invest in your woman!
🙏
Let's share to educate other

22/10/2023

WOMEN'S WORLD

• When a man has a good car it attracts more ladies to him. When a lady has a good car it repels guys away from her. This is the world we live in.

• A teenage boy impregnates his teenage girlfriend. The girl drops out of school, the boy continues his education. This is the world we live in.

• A guy catches his girlfriend with another guy, he fights his girlfriend. A lady catches her guy with another lady, she fights the other lady. This is the world we live in.

• The older a man becomes, the higher the number of ladies available for him. The older a lady becomes the fewer the number of guys available for her. This is the world we live in.

• A 76 year old man can still marry a 26 year old lady. A 36 year old lady is tagged too old to get married. This is the world we live in.

• A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he's being praised and congratulated for moving on, after all life is for the living.

• A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, "aaah! so early? Are u sure she wasn't sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. This is the world we live in.

• A married man is caught in bed with another woman, his wife is asked to forgive him and move on. A married woman is caught in bed with another man, the husband asks her to leave his house. This is the world we live in.

• If a man rises to be the CEO of the company, he got there by hard work and determination. If a woman rises to be the CEO of the company, even if the staff are all women, she is suspected to get there by sleeping with the board members. This is the world we live in. Some people will read this post and will neither like nor comment on it and won't even add me for more just because am not yet a CELEBRITY forgetting that they can make me one..🫣🫣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is the world and the group we live .

22/10/2023

DEAR YOUNG ADULT GIRL

As you're growing up and getting closer to the journey of marriage life...Pls try to understand that you can choose a husband for yourself but your kids can't choose their own father, while choosing a father for them pls choose a father, a friend, a tutor, a prophet, and a guidance for them...

And don't forget to be good mother you can raise a hero and not a zero.
Wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made, so think deep, choose your prison mate carefully and sentence yourself wisely, to avoid prison break.

11/10/2023

Best Marriage Advice EVER...✍🏾

1. Choose to love each other, even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment, not a feeling.

2. Always answer the phone when your husband/wife is calling. When possible, try to keep your phone off when you're together with your spouse.

3. Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the "currency of relationships," so consistently invest time into your marriage.

4. Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage. Remove yourself from people who may tempt you to compromise your character.

5. Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share moments of joy. And even in the hard times, find reasons to laugh.

6. In every argument, remember that there won't be a "winner" and a "loser." You're partners in everything so you'll either win together or lose together. Work together to find a solution.

7. Realize that a strong marriage rarely has two strong people at the same time. It's usually a husband and wife taking turns being strong for each other in the moments when the other feels weak.

8. Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. It takes more than s*x to build a strong marriage, but it's nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it.

9. Remember that marriage isn't 50/50— divorce is 50/50. Marriage has to be 100/100. It's not splitting everything in half, but both partners giving everything they've got.

10. Give your best to each other, not your leftovers after you've given your best to everyone else.

11. Learn from other people, but don't feel the need to compare your life or your marriage to anyone else's. God's plan for your life is masterfully unique.

12. Don't put your marriage on hold while you're raising your kids or else you'll end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.

13. Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.

11/10/2023

S*x is an important element in marriage and until there is s*xual in*******se between a husband and a wife, the marriage is not yet spiritually recognized. This shows how important s*x is in marriage.

When you look at how aggressive men are towards s*x you may think that what a man needs from a woman is s*x. Of course, if he has not married you yet or he does not really intend to marry you what he will need from you is nothing above your body. But if he really intends to marry you or if you guys are already married s*x is never what he needs from you - maybe let me say it better; "WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS NOT S*X."
Many young girls think because they are s*xually active and experience they will easily be married and have their husbands loving them. And when a man approaches for marriage they think the greatest asset they have to show the man is s*x. Others also think once they are giving out their bodies it means they are giving out the best for which reason they will be chosen above all.

There is this young girl who is very beautiful and s*xually active. Due to that she thought s*x is all that matters to a man. Ironically, she struggled for long before finally getting married. Her s*xual dexterity could not win her the heart of a man until out of the blue and reason beyond imagination a very handsome good man married her. The wedding was grand and her tears were now gone. Unfortunately only a year after the wedding the marriage fell on rocks. Within five years three different men came her way but none could stay.
The problem was simple. She thought s*x was all that matters so she would never submit. But submission is what men need, not s*x. It is time for our young ladies to know that when a man is ready to marry he will not look out for a woman who will satisfy his s*x drive but a woman who will submit herself to him. Excuse my language, "every woman has va**na but not every woman has humility." So when you are a humble woman, you are expensive .

06/10/2023

HOW TO WIN AS A COUPLE

1. Cover each other's weaknesses

2. Celebrate each other's strengths

3. Have no topics that you cannot talk about. No judgment. Openness will open your mind to solutions

4. Consider each other's opinions and contribution

5. Be 100% in. Full commitment

6. Make incremental progress. Seek growth, not perfection

7. Develop a culture of reviewing your relationship; are we doing OK, and where can we improve?

8. Accept correction, be humble

9. Work on yourselves to be the best wife, the best husband

10. Have joint goals

11. Support each other in your individual goals

12. Keep each other as a priority even as you have friends

13. Thank God together. A thankful couple is a powerful couple

14. Don't compete with each other, accommodate each other

15. Bring whatever lessons or opportunities you learn out there into your marriage. Learn together

16. Be patient. Some wins take time

17. When you fall whether as a couple or as individuals, pick each other up

18. Protect what you have built together. It is very easy to lose it fast

19. Control your tempers. A lot of bad choices are made in moments of anger

20. Don't copy other couples. Create your testimonies. and Marriage advice💯📌❤️👌🏼

06/10/2023

ADVICE TO ALL MARRIED MEN...✍✔

1. If you value your health and you want to live long and have a happy home, let your wife always win an argument. Trust me, it's the shortcut I know to peace of mind! Where there is no wood (fuel), the fire goes out!

2. Stop trying to figure out your wife or understand why she does what she does. It's a waste of precious time. Remember that you (Adam) were put to sleep while she (Eve) was being produced? How can you try to understand an equipment that wasn't assembled in your presence?

3. Marriage is about ACCEPTANCE, not tolerance. Make your marriage relationship-driven, not performance-driven. She was NOT created in your image. Stop projecting YOU into her. Show her the need for change through leadership, not coercion.

4. While a man is rational, the woman is emotional. One (the man) processes via his head, the other processes things through her heart (emotions). One thinks things through, the other feels her way through things. Facts drive you. Intuition drives her. What she can't FEEL, she doesn't SEE!

5. When s*x becomes a weapon, a duty or an entitlement, it loses its very essence, LOVE-MAKING. It simply becomes another chore like dish-washing which nobody looks forward to doing! Play with her. Flirt with her. Serenade her. Hug. Cuddle. Hold hands. Surprise her. Blow gently into her ears while she is cooking or while you are watching a movie together. Be spontaneous. Being a king-kong overlord in "ze oza room" and puffing and panting like a worn-out locomotive while she wonders what just happened can only lead to frustration. Remember, it is never about the size of the weapon but the fury of the attack! (Decode that!)

6. Go out often. Make regular, unscheduled date nights. Take a bath together. Make room for movie nights together either at home or at the cinema.

14/09/2023

FACTS ABOUT WOMEN.

1- When a woman is angry, over half of what she says-she doesn't mean...

2- The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves.

3- A woman is not like 'detol advert', if you don't take care of her... Others will.

4- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it.

5- A woman is such a school you will never graduate from.

6- Your wedding certificate with her is not a "driving licence", its just a "Learners permit"

7- She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach.

8- A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt.

9- A woman can be highly secretive... Most times when they prove hard to men, they go to their closet and friends to cry.

10- All women Love to be begged. men often miss out on this........

11- All women have a unique character like salt, their presence might not be noticed but their absence makes all things tasteless.
True ?
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10/09/2023

A girl posted on her timeline saying she needs $5000 urgently😪
People were just observing the post without saying anything😪
Then a guy commented nd said he can help😶
She smiled nd the guy ask for her acct details nd send her $6000😱 nd told her to use the remaining $1000 for her self🙌
The girl thanked him🙏.... One day the girl called the guyy nd asked for a date, he agreed nd they went
They started having feelings for each other💑
Then the girl surprised him with a brand new car😱😱, nd she took the guy to Dubai nd they got married💕💕😇

MORAL LESSON: I need Ksh20000 urgently🤨🤨
Remember the lesson 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

09/09/2023

Don’t take a woman for granted if she is giving you
too much attention. Just consider yourself lucky
because maybe she loves you so much that she
doesn’t want anyone else to take her place in your
life. If she cries for you don’t think she is weak but
consider yourself lucky that she thinks you are worth
her precious tears. If she is jealous of the other
women around you don’t think she is insecure but
she doesn’t want to see anyone else to be in your
arms. If a woman says sorry to you even though it
was not her fault don’t think she fears losing you but
she considers her relationship worth, than another chance
and she doesn’t want anyone else to have your heart...
I know there may woman who like to barge and complain
About, this massage is not for them
This massage is for those men that pray to have a good wife
and everything God finally bless them with a good wife
You we'll start Maltreating her,
Just because you know that she love you more than you love her
Change now and build your home with love

Remember
(wife) love you with or without money
But side-chick love your money not you😂

02/09/2023

12 Important Unspoken Social Rules You Should Know.

1. Don't interrupt when someone is talking.

2. Don't judge someone by their appearance. Many people have missed opportunities as a result of it.

3. Always respect someone's personal space.

4. Never assume something about someone. Talk to them if you care.

5. Apologize when you're wrong. Ego never adds anything valuable to you. Rather it subtracts.

6. Don't talk badly about someone behind their back. It is a way of telling the audience you will do the same about them.

7. Be honest, even if it's hard. And say No when it is not comfortable to you, even if it hurts.

8. Don't gossip or spread rumours, even on social media.

9. Don't stare or make inappropriate comments about people.

10. Treat others how you want to be treated.

11. Offer help when you can, but do not be compelled to do so.

12. Don't let your anger control your actions.

Thank you so much for Reading through❤..

02/09/2023

There is a man somewhere right now sneaking into a hotel room with a woman who is not his wife, preparing for a weekend of illicit s*x. There is a man right now taking his wife for a romantic walk by the Beach, preparing for a weekend of intimacy with his spouse.
The Choices you are making this weekend are building your marriage or destroying it. Choices are seeds, harvest time is coming, This weekend make the right choice

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