02/01/2024
Sub - dom
Sub/dom dynamics are all about energy. As a type of kink, you can think of it as a form of light role play.
A dom (short for “dominant”) is the other half of a sub/dom dynamic, where the other partner is submissive in bed.
One person, the submissive, is receiving orders, being obedient, and consensually relinquishing their power.
The other, the dominant, is giving orders, enforcing obedience, and consensually indulging their power.
But don’t get it twisted: “indulging their power” isn’t code for being a jerk, being rude, or only trying to get what you want out of the s*xual experience. It’s about communication, an agreed-upon set of mutual boundaries, and most importantly: trust.
That’s by far the largest prerequisite to being a successful dom. But if this still seems confusing or abstract, you might need to see a dom in action to understand the vibe.
Yes…I’m advising you to watch some ethical p**n, to see what it looks like when folks enact s*xy sub/dom dynamics. They are not only educational, but um – ridiculously hot. Trust me on this. 🤪.
So you want to flex your dom side? Here is a pro tip : don’t forget to lavish your sub with compliments when they obey. Subs are eager to please.
NNancy Speaks@
