Benjamin Zulu Global

17/11/2025

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Once he says this, stop everything

17/11/2025

Once you start dating married people...

17/11/2025

Ladies: Once you get a 2nd child...

17/11/2025

We don't need to discuss the character in case 1. She agreed to become a human Samantha and then started complaining about it. We know these girls: confused elements with delayed mental maturation. They behave as if they have undiagnosed mental disability.

In case 2, however, that's where most women are trapped and wasted. The man transported the lady to Disneyland by making her believe they were getting married so that she could slide into his life with zero or no standards at all.

This girl has everything working in her favour, but she's not aware of it. She's in teaching, one of the most marriage-friendly careers. Teachers and nurses are always hot cakes in the dating world.
Also, she's 27, at the peak of her youth. If she stayed in the market unattached to any man, she'd have many options to choose from.

But now she's fallen to this common trap: let's move in, and we'll formalise things later. Maybe even within months. But the trap is hidden in plain sight. He wants her to put the cart before the horse so that he dodges the character test.

Once she starts playing the role of wife before the marriage covenant, there's absolutely no agreement at all. There are no standards for loyalty and faithfulness. By having premarital s*x, she has lost all moral rights to even discuss it.

He's already sleeping with other women because that's his lifestyle of choice, but she can't see it that way because she's already in Disneyland, calling it 'We're married.'

If she were dating correctly, she'd flag that behaviour at once and run away. And that single step would make her dodge the hell of the bad marriage she's sliding into.

In short, premarital s*x always devalues the woman. Whether it's express casual s*x with no strings attached or it's a down payment for an upcoming marriage, the woman always pays a high price. And for many years.

But will they listen?

(©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)

17/11/2025

What men wish you knew

17/11/2025

Women, do this to be genuinely loved

17/11/2025

Since when did sleeping with a woman become accidental so that you come here pretending to be shocked? When you undressed her and pulled out your arrows from the quiver, did you think you were performing the isikuti dance?

You're at the university, and you don't understand basic biology?

Furthermore, if that girl is under 18, which I believe she is, you just committed defilement and you risk a jail term of no less than 20 years!

I'm also a father, for your information, and if this were my daughter, you might never impregnate another one. Pray that her parents be merciful. You don't know the pain of raising your child for seventeen or so years, only for some predator to pounce on her at the peak of her teenage years.

It's unbearable. You mean you saw a child in a school uniform and you just imagined sleeping with her?

This is not the kind of society I want to be a part of!

How do you intercept someone's daughter and turn her into a teen mother before her flower blossoms just because of your animalistic lust?

Where shall we hide our children? You're just worrying about yourself because you've been caught. But you don't ask how the entire trajectory of this girl's life has been changed?

You're older, and you ought to know better. If you must fornicate, you should have gone for your college mates. At least those ones have crossed over to the university, and you can raise the child together.

But a teenager who is yet to sit in their secondary school exam? You have wronged an entire family.

You should visit that family, accompanied by your parents, to apologise and take responsibility for the child.

Do not even think about abortion because you may cause more damage and risk the girl's life. Also, do not marry the girl. She still has a long way to grow. Just co-parent and start thinking about the child's future.

This generation calls s*xual mistakes 'making love.' The correct term should be 'ruining life.'

You may be young, but the law of sowing and reaping still applies.

(©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)

17/11/2025

If you're invited late, turn it down. It means you're not really wanted. You're just being managed.

You should never accept invitations that come with disrespect. You're not an afterthought. You're either a priority or nothing.

If you feel taken for granted and downplayed, answer with resounding success. Stand so tall that they have to acknowledge you.

If people call you average and then you become mediocre, you're confirming their insult. Sometimes, you must rise above just to set the record straight that you're not as small as they thought.

In the places where you're not appreciated, stop approaching. You were born to be celebrated, not tolerated.

Those who betray you quietly forget them quietly. If they join your enemies in silence, strike them from your inner circle in silence.

The African proverb says to return a night arrow in the same direction it came from. If someone does not explain why they changed against you, don't bother asking.

This is the language of self-respect and self-protection.

(©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)

17/11/2025

One guy said that he owns real estate, and some of it is located among low-income earners. Whenever he visits those properties, he has to adapt a different mindset in order to mingle with his clientele there.

He learned earlier that people who are consistently broke have a distinctive language. Those who are constantly struggling to pay rent are frequently staggering from one crisis to another - whether it's school fees or a lack of food - they speak a certain language.

It was a reactive language. They spoke from a position where life was happening to them. They were on the receiving end of everything, and they felt helpless.

'You know how the economy is. We can't afford things anymore. School fees have gone up. Groceries are more expensive. We're underpaid at work. We can no longer cover our bills.'

They were full of sweeping generalisations. 'There's no money anymore. This government has destroyed the economy. Nobody can afford good things anymore.'

The landlord couldn't counter with suggestions or solutions because that's not what they wanted to hear. They wanted comfort in their helplessness. You should agree with them so they feel justified.

He said that he always took a moment to downgrade to that way of thinking in order to interact and to shake it off when he left.

We can call it the language of the poor. It is a language of opt-in helplessness, also known in sociology as learned helplessness, when it's passed on from parents to children.

Victimhood is comforting because it absolves you from blame and accountability. If things are happening to you, nobody can blame you. It's fate. It's external forces. There's nothing you can do.

If you try to give them solutions and things they can do to change their circumstances, they see those suggestions as problems, too.

In short, the poor are locked in impossibility thinking. This is the invisible bo***ge that keeps them down.

And here's your warning: never marry someone who talks the language of the poor. Even if they're learned, they will tire you to death. They're impossible to dream with and grow with because they see themselves as victims in every context.

They must find something to complain about to justify inaction. They must point fingers at you, or the weather, the employer, the economy, anything.

This kind of dissonance in marriage is one of the worst to deal with.

If you're caught up in the language of the poor yourself, snap out of it by changing your mental position. Take control of your life.

Become the designer of your life and not just the receiver. Change your philosophy from one of helplessness to one of being in charge.

Accept that your life is not determined by what happens to you but by what you do with what happens.

(©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)

17/11/2025

It's like she's saying, 'I wish he was cheating with a lesser sized woman so that I can square with her in a fist fight.'

Again, you're free to jump into marriage at 19 or whatever impractical age you fancy. But just know that the consequences of the growth you skip and the development you don't undertake will haunt you for life.

And those who argue that it's not about your age but about the person you choose should tell us why they don't allow their 10-year-olds to drive or handle alcohol. There's a time for everything under the sun.

Your brain is the main equipment you have to transact life with, and when it's not fully developed, you're severely disadvantaged in any deals you enter into. Anyone refuting that fact is an agent of the devil in your life.

Just because some people got lucky and landed good people after making blind choices, or that others chose wrong while they were already grown, is not in any way related to this truth.

We know that smoking causes lung cancer, and abuse of alcohol damages the liver. We also know that some smokers and alcoholics never develop lung cancer or damaged liver, and others who never smoked or drank alcohol do suffer lung cancer and liver damage.

Still, these facts don't cancel the truth about the dangers of smoking or alcohol abuse. It's the same with premature dating and marriage. You'll make terrible choices, and they will cost you.

(©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)

16/11/2025

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16/11/2025

There's another injustice I have seen under the sun: the poor think they lack money or power when, in truth, they lack advantage.

Those who are winning in the marketplace and raking in big income are not any better or more naturally gifted. They're just better placed.

The playing field is not even, and those standing on raised grounds can see better and shoot better.

The poor, however, don't know that there are better places to shoot from.

If two children are poised to compete in a wrestling match where the prize is a big financial reward, the game will hardly be determined by the levels of talent.

The poor kid may never know that they can hire a professional trainer or wear superior sports gear that provides a better grip and faster movements. They'll never know that there's such a thing as sports nutrition that's entirely legal within the rules, and it gives the competitor better stamina and more endurance.

The poor kid also may not know about watching great wrestlers and applying their tricks to edge past the competition.

Ultimately, the winner is the one who has the advantage of superior training and preparation.

In other words, information trumps talent all the time.

The poor lack an advantage because they're blocked from superior information. They're not shown where natural advantage is.

The winners are not winning because they're better. They're winning because they know better.

They have advantageous information.

Understand this: you can flip your life around by just seeking better information.

A long time ago, to access information, you needed to be enrolled in an institution. You needed a library access card and a student number.

Today, you only need the internet and curiosity. With self-direction, you can put yourself in front in any field. You can take positions of advantage any time you decide.

Many people, however, are only curious for nonsense.

Learn to use your time online like a session at the university. Log into social media like you're logging into a library.

Engage online teachers like you're engaging professors and industry tutors.

See how many advantages you unlock. You'll gain classified information for free.

You'll learn of ripe opportunities before others learn of them.

You'll understand that the most lucrative and ripe opportunities are never advertised in mainstream media but rather passed along relationship networks and whispered in restaurant lounges.

In short, the rich don't get ahead because they have any natural advantage over the rest. Rather, they get rich because they have the advantage of better information.

Start investing in learning. Seek to know first, and earning will become automatic.

(©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)