12/05/2026
We often downplay the importance of non-seggsual intimacy in our romantic partnerships because we think that seggs is the only way to connect with another human being in a meaningful way.
The reality is that if connecting through non-seggsual ways feels awkward and/or you are using this as a measure of how much someone desires you, you could be going about this the wrong way. It is in the little moments where you can truly connect and bond with another human being.
So, you can throw gasoline and light a match, and the fire will burn bright and then die down as soon as the gasoline is burnt out. Or, you can build up a fire; straw by straw, twig by twig, log by log; to keep it burning longer. The choice is always yours.
Here are some ways you can connect with your special someone through non-seggsual intimacy, give it a go and see what happens.
Have a lovely day.
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