
14/05/2025
& Finance
A Christian Couple's Guide to Money That Honours God💰✝️
Money isn't just dollars and cents—it's the story of:
✔ What we value most
✔ What keeps us up at night
✔ What dreams we're chasing together
For Christian couples, how we handle money isn't just practical—it's spiritual warfare. Your bank statement reveals more about your heart than your devotional journal ever could.
Ready to build financial unity God's way? Let's dive in.
𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗠𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗧𝗮𝗹𝗸𝘀 𝗖𝗮𝗻'𝘁 𝗪𝗮𝗶𝘁💬
Most Christian couples make this mistake:
🚫 Avoiding money convos until engagement
🚫 Only discussing surface-level budgets
🚫 Never uncovering money mindsets
𝗕𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵: Start with heart questions like:
• "What's your first memory about money?"
• "How did your parents model stewardship?"
• "Where do you see God in our finances?"
𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗦𝗮𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗦𝗽𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀 (𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗩𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝗩𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗮)💑
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗧𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻:
💰 The saver feels: "They're so reckless!"
💸 The spender feels: "They're so controlling!"
The Truth: You need BOTH!
- Savers bring wisdom (Prov 21:20)
- Spenders bring joy (Eccl 5:19)
Solution: Create a "Yes/No" budget:
✅ 80% goes to shared priorities
✅ 10% each for guilt-free spending
𝗗𝗲𝗯𝘁: 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗘𝗹𝗲𝗽𝗵𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗗𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲🐘
If THEY have debt:
• Ask: "What's your repayment plan?"
• Avoid shaming—we've all made mistakes
• Discuss if you'll tackle it together post-marriage
If YOU have debt:
• Disclose before engagement
• Show progress with statements
• Commit to better habits
𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗢𝗻𝗲 𝗘𝗮𝗿𝗻𝘀 𝗠𝗼𝗿𝗲💼
Danger zone: Letting income = authority
God's way:
• All money is God's money (Hag 2:8)
• Regular financial check-ins
• Equal voice in decisions
Practical tip: Try the 3-account system:
1️⃣ Yours
2️⃣ Mine
3️⃣ Ours
𝗠𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗠𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗠𝗶𝗻𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘆💒
Transform finances from fight-starter to faith-builder:
1️⃣ Tithe first (Mal 3:10)
2️⃣ Give spontaneously
3️⃣ Save expectantly
4️⃣ Spend thankfully
Pray this: "Lord, make us wise stewards of what's Yours."
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