22/08/2025
I have lately been following the online couples debacles unfold and I can't help but Inform as follows;
In this age of oversharing, couples,whether dating or married, who choose to display their relationships online should understand the double-edged sword of popularity. The same way you invite us to like, comment, and celebrate your anniversaries, birthdays, holidays, and gifts, is the same way we’ll be invited to witness and amplifyyour mess when things fall apart.
If you truly want to protect the parts of your life that aren’t picture-perfect (as is the case for everyone), then perhaps the safest bet is to keep your relationship offline and simply show us you. But the moment you sell your love story as a brand,serving us the cream, the sparkle, and the highlights—be prepared that when the storms come, we will also be here. We will dissect, judge, label, and escalate it. We’ll decide who was the narcissist, who was the victim, who prayed, and who didn’t. That’s the price of turning private life into public spectacle.