EISH Consult

15/09/2025

She told me, “I cook for him, I clean, I even surprise him with gifts… but still, he says he doesn’t feel loved.”

I sat there thinking, how many of us have felt the same? Pouring love in the best way we know how, yet somehow it doesn’t land. 💔

The truth is, love isn’t the problem. Translation is.

That’s where love languages come in.
✨ In relationships, they bridge the gap between “I thought I was loving you” and “I don’t feel loved.”
✨ In parenting, they help our children not just hear love but feel it deeply.
✨ In healing, they help us rewrite the painful stories that shaped the way we give and receive love.

Because love is not just about effort. It’s about being understood. ❤️

👉🏽 At Eish Consult, we walk with you through these discoveries helping couples, parents, and individuals learn not just to love, but to love in a way that truly connects.

So, let me ask you; Do you know your love language?

12/09/2025

I once spoke to someone who said, “I give my partner everything, but somehow… they still don’t feel loved.” 💔

It hit me, so many of us have felt that way. Pouring out our love, yet it doesn’t land. Or maybe as parents, we try our best, but our children still feel unseen. The truth is, we don’t all receive love in the same way.

That’s why the idea of love languages is so powerful. It teaches us that:
✨ In relationships → it closes the painful gap between “I thought I was loving you” and “I don’t feel loved.”
✨ In parenting → children light up when love is spoken in their language whether through hugs, words of encouragement, or quality time.
✨ In healing → trauma can twist how we give and receive love. Learning your love language can help untangle those old wounds and start a new story.

And here’s the beautiful part, research says it’s not just about having one “primary” language. True connection grows when love is shown in many ways, over and over again.

💭 Maybe you’ve been there too… giving love, but it wasn’t received. Or longing for love, but it didn’t come in the way you needed. What’s your love language?

10/09/2025

We all know the 5 Love Languages… words of affirmation, acts of service, gifts, quality time, and touch. But here’s the truth we rarely talk about: trauma shapes the way we give and receive love. ❤️‍🩹

That’s why we’re starting a brand new series — Love Languages & Trauma. It’s a deep, honest conversation about how our past affects our relationships, and how we can move toward healing.

✨ The first episode drops soon, and you’ll want to be part of it from the very beginning. Stay tuned — this is a series you don’t want to miss.

09/09/2025

The father wound doesn’t stop with one person, it often trickles down, shaping how the next generation relates, loves, and even leads. 💔

But what if the father himself was wounded? How do we walk with him through healing so the cycle can finally break?

Join the conversation as we unpack generational wounds, restoration, and the power of true fatherhood. 🕊️

08/09/2025

Every step toward healing begins with a conversation. Today, as we continue fixing the nation one conversation at a time, we’re taking a closer look at the father wound.

08/09/2025

Join us today on NTV at 10:30 AM as we unpack “Understanding the Father Wound” and begin an important conversation on breaking the stigma and stereotypes around it.

📺 Don’t miss it. This is a dialogue we all need to have.
👉🏽 Tune in and be part of the change.

29/08/2025

💔 They didn’t know it yet… but they were walking into a dance they’d danced before.

The anxious one — drawn to closeness, warmth, reassurance.
The avoidant — drawn to space, freedom, independence.

At first, it felt electric.
Like they had finally found what they were missing.

But soon, the anxious one’s longing for more connection made the avoidant retreat…
And the avoidant’s retreat?
It made the anxious one cling tighter.

One chasing.
One withdrawing.
Over and over again.

The cycle feels exhausting… but it can be broken.
When both see the pattern — and choose to meet in the middle — love can finally feel safe. 💛

✨ Awareness is the first step.
Follow for more insights on breaking the cycle and building secure, healthy love.
Book a couples therapy to turn things around Via Whatsapp: click below👇👇

25/08/2025

I was delighted to attend and also serve as one of the guest speakers at the book launch of Sara Jacks, a woman whose work continually reminds us of the importance of realizing our full potential and putting our God-given skills into practice. 🌱

Her new books are a true celebration of courage, growth, and the power of stepping into purpose.

As someone whose profession is centered on unlocking potential and inspiring growth, it was an honor to be part of this milestone and contribute to such a powerful conversation.

Congratulations once again, Sara, for turning your vision into reality and sharing your wisdom with the world! 🙌

25/08/2025

You text them… and watch the ticks turn blue.
Minutes pass. Hours.
Your heart races, your mind spins a hundred ‘what ifs’.
Did you say something wrong?
Are they upset? Are they leaving?

Anxious attachment feels like constantly holding your breath—waiting for reassurance, afraid of the silence.

But love doesn’t have to feel like this.
You deserve peace, not panic.
Connection, not constant fear.

Let’s unpack the roots of your anxiety together and build a love that feels safe.
Your healing starts with one brave step."*

📅 Book your session today via Whatsapp — Your future self will thank you.

23/08/2025

✨ Meet Lydiah Karimi ✨
A Certified Professional Counselor, Psychotherapist, Spiritual Mentor, and Entrepreneur with over 9 years of experience in counseling and psychological therapy.

Her areas of speciality include:
💠 Marriage & Family Therapy
💠 Pre-marital Counseling
💠 Child & Adolescent Counseling
💠 Mental Health Therapy & Awareness
💠 Trauma, Loss & Grief Counseling
💠 Relationship & Career Counseling
💠 Depression, Stress & Addiction Therapy

Her passion? 💡 Guiding people through life’s transitions, offering tailored solutions, and empowering families to thrive in purpose and freedom.

🌐 www.lydiahkarimi.co.ke

22/08/2025

Ever met someone who seems warm… but there’s an invisible wall you can’t get past?
They laugh with you, but when the conversation turns deep, they shut down.
They say “I just need space” right when you’re trying to get closer.

This isn’t coldness.
It’s often an avoidant attachment style — a way of protecting themselves that usually starts in childhood.
They learned early that closeness can hurt… so they keep their guard up.

But here’s the truth:
Walls can come down.
Healing is possible.
And it starts with understanding your patterns.

📅 Book a therapy session today via Whatsapp— together, we can rewrite your story.

19/08/2025