08/09/2025
Conditioning is a fact, not an opinion. The mind works the same way in every mind: patterns form, beliefs stick, wounds replay … even if the content is different. Hurt, sorrow, unworthiness, fear… all of it flows from the same mechanism, passed from one generation to the next.
The mind you have is the same mind that society shaped. Even if you disagree with it, even if you resist, it carries the imprint of history: the unspoken rules, the inherited fears, the unlived dreams, the subtle ways bias and prejudice seep in. You may not see it, but ignoring it doesn’t erase it.
Without awareness, you will pass it on, your children will inherit your unresolved pains, your unprocessed losses, your little hurts, all wrapped in what you call love. The patterns repeat, just as they did for your parents.
Facts are facts. The mind is conditioned. But the mind can also be unconditioned. Awareness loosens the patterns. Presence dissolves them. And when that happens, what you pass on is not fear, but freedom.
