25/05/2022
Food for thought 🪴
I love this photo.
In Denmark, "gender roles" are practically non existent. Everyone mixes and learns how to cook, clean, knit, work with wood. Because everyone is expected to take part in life equally.
Men take great pride in their roles as dads as much as women and society greatly encourages this.
I wonder if we replaced the classic idea of "boys will be boys" (rough, rowdy, rambunctious, plays with cars and dinosaurs) and replaced it with (sweet, caring, sensitive, thoughtful, likes to play house and take care of kids) what would we see in our future dads who then go on to influence the next future dads?
After living in Scandinavia, I saw nothing more "manly" as someone who confidently steps in to take care of children with all the love, work and effort this requires. Sling an ax to chop a tree, meh... sling a diaper change and swaddle a baby with delicate ease while cooing and looking in their eyes?....wonderful.
Seeing as play is where children practice life roles the most, let's give more and more opportunity for play without the stigma, and redefine "boys will be boys" to include all the wonderful possibilities of becoming kind, helpful, caring humans.
Isn't this what we want more of in the world?