
08/08/2025
Are we really helping the horse? ๐ด
Iโve been struggling to put this into words that will make a coherent post for a while, Iโm not sure Iโve been successful.
The more horses I meet and the more I learn about their bodies and behaviour the more I realise so much of the training weโre doing is inappropriate for them in that moment.
Today Iโm not going to talk about the rough stuff, I want to talk about the gentle training, the slow stuff that appears to be putting the horse first, no explosions just quietly coaxing the horse along. Even when training like this, it can still be inappropriate.
The problem is, most behavioural issues are rooted in chronic stress and/or pain/discomfort.
When we simply train with pressure and release and keep repeating until the horse does the thing, most horses will give up and comply despite being uncomfortable or sore, even if that pressure is seemingly quiet and gentle. If we are persistent enough, even pressure we deem to be โsoftโ can be enough to make a horse comply to make it stop.
I have a client horse who started exploding under saddle and the rider fell badly. The horse was โclearedโ by a vet after a generic lameness work up and they had a trainer out to help them re-back the horse. In the video they shared with me the saddlecloth was introduced rubbed along the horseโs back, the horse tried to walk away and was kept close to the trainer by a lead rope, the horse eventually stopped with a very tense face and tolerated the saddlecloth going on. This process was repeated with the saddle and then the girth. When they went to girth up the horse visibly flinched, so they did it over and over again and explained โhe needs to learn its not going to hurtโ. The problem is it was hurting and he was desperately trying to communicate this.
I went out to see this horse after he had thrown 2 further riders and referred him straight back to a vet because of all of the very blatant signs of pain he was showing, he was diagnosed with arthritis in his neck and grade 3 stomach ulcers. This horse also had extremely poor muscling over his whole body so regardless of his behaviour no professional shouldโve been encouraging sitting on his back.
A lack of explosive behaviour is not a green flag to keep going. We are not listening well enough if we only listen once the horse is screaming at us. Its also no good recognising more subtle signs of stress if you choose to repeatedly ignore them and keep going because you can โshow the horse its fineโ.
So you're saying its always pain? Yes, no, maybe ๐ฅฒ. I try to use the word discomfort. Which can mean the obvious kinds of pain in the body we think of, but that can also mean emotional discomfort from training the horse is finding too stressful or physical discomfort from being ridden in uncomfortable postures or asked to do inappropriate levels of work for where their body is at right now. Sometimes all of the above.
This isnโt meant to be a doom and gloom post, perhaps just planting a seed to really look at what weโre doing with our horses when trying to โfixโ behavioural issues.
I just wonder how these horses may improve if, instead of going straight to behavioural modification, we just backed off, prioritised their emotional state by getting their daily living situation as stable and low-stress as we can giving them chance to down-regulate, then re-introduced the training scenario in a completely different way to build new, positive associations. Then we would have a base to work from and see what's really going on underneath. Maybe with some time like this and some gentle movement to improve their posture some of those chronic tension/soreness patterns in the body would go away.
We need to be looking at everything, management, social life, nutrition, posture, hoof balance, emotional health, previous history etc, instead we are โproblem-solvingโ behavioural issues by taking a horse into a training space and teaching them to be obedient when pressure is applied, everything else is an after-thought.
Horse doesnโt like the saddle? Keep putting the saddle on and off until they give up and stand still
Horse wonโt go forward? Keep nagging with legs/stick until they take a step forward
Horse wonโt stand at the mounting block? Make him park there and just put him back every time he moves until he stops bothering.
Horse wonโt load on the trailer? Keep applying pressure and only release when he steps forward.
My whole approach now is to get the horse into the absolute best place I can emotionally by reducing the overall stress levels in their life so we can perhaps get them into a trainable state. Sometimes the horse is so stressed that the first session looks like tweaking management and teaching the horse to eat out of some buckets in an appropriate training space, then leaving the owner to do that until the horse is relaxed about it, then the next session we can introduce some training.
When dealing with behavioural issues that can be caused by pain/fear like aversions to tack/being mounted/loading, Iโm always going to bring choice to the table, using pressure/release to do this isnโt giving them a real choice. Its quietly shutting down their communication as thereโs really only one answer we will accept. When we give horses choices, they can communicate with us more effectively. Sometimes we arenโt going to like the answer, which is why people push against this sort of training as being โineffectiveโ. But I am more interested in finding out how the horse actual feels so I can then hopefully find out why and help them.
Iโm not interested in nagging horses into doing things they do not want to do, and probably cannot do comfortably, for my own interests. Unfortunately it makes for a terrible business model.
This is an industry-wide problem, extreme stress behaviour is so normalised that weโre mistaking less-explosive stress behaviour for calm relaxation. It is also normalised that horses are there for us to use and they should do exactly what we want them to do at all times or else. I donโt know how else to elicit change except to constantly blab on about it, then hopefully those among us who genuinely want to put our horseโs first can start to see through the narratives and see a different way forward. ๐ด