
08/10/2023
Sometimes we loose ourselves. We think we have a plan, a routine and something unexpected disrupts that and we are left anxious, lost, without direction. But we have to find ourselves again and get back on track.
When the chaos subsides we have to pause, focus and reclaim ourselves again or otherwise we risk loosing what we worked so hard for. We risk loosing ourselves again. It’s useless reminiscing on what could have been if we didn’t have that setback or that problem. It’s a waste of time and energy. Instead build yourself up again.
Be patient with yourself
Be gentle with yourself. Acknowledge the fact that you had to prioritize.
Be forgiving and loving with yourself.
Each time you have a setback take it as a learning curve.
Take time on the mat again. 🧘🏼♀️ You may find that you forgot how to breathe again because of the anxiety. You may observe that your breaths are shallow that your body is stiff and tense, or that you’re irritable, your thoughts are racing and you’re clenching your jaw. It’s okay. You love yourself enough to find your way back again.
Put some calming music, light up some candles and find a comfortable sitting position. Close your eyes and take a moment to ground yourself no matter how much your body fights to move. Even if just for a minute try to stand still. Unclench your jaw and start increasing the length and depth of your breath. Try to focus your mind on your breathing, the sounds and smells around you. Be present as much as you can and when your mind starts to wonder again, focus on your breath.
This is my first step to finding myself again after the chaos.
Accept your setbacks and turn them into comebacks