Holistic Human Being

Holistic Human Being ⭐ Body Bliss ⭐ Emotional Alchemy ⭐ Mental Mastery ⭐ Self Worth ⭐ Embodied Awareness ⭐ Empowerment ⭐ As a therapist, I specialise in releasing stress and pain.

I'm Melanie Drury, a holistic life coach with over twelve years of experience in holistic body therapy and energy healing. As a coach, I empower unfulfilled, stressed and stuck humans to level up their physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well-being so that they can take their lives to the next level. I was inspired to become a life coach after a transformative journey of my own. I went through a dramatic life situation that triggered deep emotional distress, overthinking and self-doubt, and despite pushing through, I lost my peace of mind and joy of living. Eventually, I broke down and realised that I needed to shift into a higher version of myself and transform my life. With radical self-love and compassionate self-care, I was able to transform the thought patterns and transmute the emotions that were keeping me stuck. That dark inner space became a cocoon that allowed me to shed skins and evolve into a butterfly that could savour the nectar of life! It was this process that led to the discovery of a magical formula for inner success that ripples out to all areas of life. It was my expertise in holistic healing combined with a life-long interest in self-development that helped me forge my way onwards, upwards and beyond. And as massage clients and friends began approaching me to seek holistic guidance, I knew I wanted to train so I could offer professional support and facilitation in a safely held space. I can guide you on your HERO’s journey through cultivating embodied awareness as we work with the body, emotions, mind, self-worth and spirituality to raise your vibration. This expansion process helps you awaken your inner WIZARD and unlock your power to create a life of peace, joy, and ease, from the inside out. For if a hero grows through challenge, the magician expands through aligned empowerment and delight. Upwards and beyond, I can help you connect with your highest Potential, Passion and Purpose to design and manifest your ideal life. I'm a certified life coach and ITEC qualified holistic massage therapist with additional certifications in Reflexology, Indian Head Massage, Ayurvedic Massage, Thai Massage, Crystal Reiki, Eden Energy Medicine and Aquatic Therapy. My lifelong interest in holistic healing and self-development add acupressure, yoga, meditation, breathwork, qi gong, somatic movement, crystal healing, angelic lightworking, emotional alchemy and mindset shifting to my skill set. I am based in Mellieha, Malta.

♡ Be pain-free and stress-free ♡ Reclaim your health and vitality ♡ Feel youthful and vibrant ♡ Self-regulate thoughts & emotions ♡ Experience peace, joy and ease ♡ Align with your Higher Self ♡ Increase your self-worth & confidence ♡ Reclaim your personal power ♡ Create a life you love! ♡

Are you ready to elevate your human potential and live your best life, from the inside out?

What's the fuss about 08.08 Lion's Gate? Astrological alignments and magical portals for ultimate manifestation are cool...
08/08/2025

What's the fuss about 08.08 Lion's Gate?

Astrological alignments and magical portals for ultimate manifestation are cool 🧙✨ yet even more potent is the power of intention that's within you! 🔥

So even if astrology, magic and all that may sound a little woo-woo to you, just think about the benefit of having clarity about what's truly important to you and what your heart truly desires ❤️‍🔥

That clarity becomes a compass 🧭 that effortlessly guides your day-to-day choices to bring you to your ultimate becoming: That super version of yourself living the ultimate fulfilling life!

The key 🗝️ is focusing on the WHAT and the WHY, while trusting the unfolding to show you HOW! Then intuition and impulses to action will guide you 🙏

Now if Lion's Gate is said to be a fantastic time to dream your dreams into manifestation, why not jump on the wagon of opportunity to self-reflect on this? 😁

Try these journalling prompts:

✍️ If money were not an issue, what would I be doing?

✍️ If everything I hope and more came true, how would I be introducing myself to the world? (personally and professionally)

The idea is to realise what you love to do, your passions, values and contribution. There's no right and wrong way, just allow your own curiosity to guide your flow...

As if words are spells, tap into your Next Level as if it's already happening. Use "I am..." statements, engage your senses and emotions ❤️‍🔥 know in your heart that as you can dream it you can live it!!

I loved doing this exercise for myself, such inner wisdom can shine through! ☀️

In fact, I'll be sharing more about my inner journey of these past few months: why I withdrew, to realign, and take a new trajectory in life. 🧭

And it was this exercise that helped me to tangible-ise (is that a word? 🙈) my process into ultimate clarity! Even an upgraded identity! Now I'm so excited to share with you all that's new!!!! 🥰

So I'm wishing you the best, enjoy your exploration process and have a great Lion powered day! 🦁🔥❤️

Why Body-Mind-Spirit is NOT ENOUGH20 years of holistic self care and self development And yet, at a crucial time of my l...
14/01/2025

Why Body-Mind-Spirit is NOT ENOUGH

20 years of holistic self care and self development

And yet, at a crucial time of my life,

None of that mattered to restore my wellbeing 😩

Why?

I was overwhelmed with emotional pain 💔

My self-esteem was seriously damaged 🫣

And I didn’t know what to do about it.

It was ‘just’ a breakup…

But it seriously affected my wellbeing

And I could find no way out.

👉🏼 How to lift this pain in my chest?

👉🏼 How to handle these spinning thoughts?

👉🏼 How to stop feeling “not good enough”?

I was unable to enjoy life

Or even do my work

I was in a dark spot 😱

And despite my holistic education

I felt stuck.

This is how I realised that

EMOTIONS and SELF-WORTH

Were seriously overlooked aspects

Of the human condition.

Without *emotional regulation*

And a healthy sense of *self-love* ,

My wellbeing was always at risk,

Threatened by my wounds.

I needed an internal shift

But how?

👉🏼 I explored many avenues to understand

Why my mind was overthinking,

Stuck in negative thought loops

And a bleak outlook on life.

By focusing on changing my mind,

I learnt how to use my attention and intention

To transform limiting thoughts

Into a positive and creative mindset 🌈

👉🏼 I explored many avenues to ease the pain

That weighed me down and held me back,

Unable to enjoy life

Or feel peace, joy and ease.

By focusing on raising my vibration

I learnt emotional alchemy.

I could feel and heal,

And restore gratitude and love 💖

👉🏼 I explored many avenues

To stop feeling so small,

Putting others on a pedestal

And considering my needs unimportant.

By cultivating my relationship with myself

I could see how good I am,

Grow my self love

And treat myself right ⭐

Today...

🔥 My mind is my best friend -

It works for me not against me.

🔥 My emotions are a compass -

My internal guidance system..

🔥 And I love the girl in the mirror -

She’s most important to me.

I shifted my identity

To the Next Level version of ME

And a new version of REALITY.

These 5 pillars of wellness

*Body - Emotions - Mind - Self - Source*

Became my powerful new holistic model

For self-transformation.

Ctd in comments.

What are you envisioning for 2025 and your life ahead? Having a clear north star ⭐ helps you: 👉 Navigate towards your dr...
05/01/2025

What are you envisioning for 2025 and your life ahead?

Having a clear north star ⭐ helps you:

👉 Navigate towards your dreams fulfilment no matter life's twists and turns.

👉 Make aligned choices when faced with options.

👉 Recognise opportunities and impulses to action that, with speed of implementation, get you there faster.

👉 Reflecting on what's important to you and your ideal lifestyle is the first step of manifestation.

👉 Making a Vision Board, or even just writing it down, makes it more tangible and gets the momentum going.

👉 It's fun and purposeful, and everything always ever began with a dream 😁

Do you know what would make you feel your life's fulfilment?

DM me to explore this together 😉

I see RISK as an ADVENTURE, not a THREAT. Here's WHYNot too long ago,My insecurities and fear of the unknown Held me bac...
17/12/2024

I see RISK as an ADVENTURE, not a THREAT. Here's WHY

Not too long ago,

My insecurities and fear of the unknown

Held me back from actively pursuing

My passion and purpose

That looks like a holistic wellness business.

So I stayed STUCK, playing SMALL

🙈 I was full of ideas but it stopped there.

🙈 I became overwhelmed

With a to-do list that I didn't action.

🙈 I kept learning and training and practicing,

Waiting for the right moment,

Procrastinating.

🙈 I didn't tell people about the things

That I actually did and accomplished.

🙈 I didn't show up and I didn't do the work.

As a result, my skills were little known,

My business stayed small

And I couldn't make the impact I wanted.

Until I recognised my FEAR

A product of my imagination

Rooted in my insecurities.

😅 The fear of not being good enough

"I’m not ready"

😅 The fear of criticism

"What if they don't like it?"

😅 The fear of making the wrong move

"What if my situation gets worse and I'll regret it?"

😅 The fears around time and money.

"I should wait for a better time and/or more money."

😅 The fear of change and uncertainty

"What might or might not happen?"

😅 The fear of success

"How will my lifestyle change? What if I don't like it?"

Deep down I knew that, at this rate, I'll never be ready.

Then I had a REALISATION

👉 That change is growth,

And I can always pivot.

👉 That not trying avoids failure

And also success.

👉 That worrying was keeping me

From reaching those I might serve.

So I took IMPERFECT ACTION

Better than doing nothing at all.

To support myself:

⭐ I focused on WHY this is important to me.

⭐ I created a strategy that's within my capacity.

Most importantly,

⭐ I adopted an identity shift!

“What would this new version of me do?”

That's how I QUANTUM JUMPED

To a new reality and higher timeline:

❤️ Where I show up doing my best.

❤️ Where I shake off limiting perceptions.

❤️ Where I focus on empowered action.

❤️ Where I feel confident in my abilities.

❤️ Where I feel effortlessly motivated.

❤️ Where I celebrate my big and small wins.

❤️ Where every stumbling block is a turn in the right direction.

Every step into the unknown

Is another adventure on the HERO'S JOURNEY.

Will YOU step outside your comfort zone

On your quest to fulfil

Your POTENTIAL, PASSION and PURPOSE?

Get unstuck, move onwards and upwards.

Be who you're meant to be ⭐

And live the life you're meant to live!

No more playing it ‘safe’ and playing small -

You know you're meant for more.

Create the fulfilment and impact you desire.

👉 DM for a free discovery call

It's time to let yourself SHINE ☀️

I MASTERED MY EMOTIONS, AND YOU CAN TOO!Not too long ago, if something upset me,It would feel like the carpet had been p...
15/12/2024

I MASTERED MY EMOTIONS, AND YOU CAN TOO!

Not too long ago, if something upset me,

It would feel like the carpet had been pulled from under my feet

And I’d spiral out of control.

I couldn't handle the emotions running through me.

I'd say and do things I later regretted.

I’d get defensive and push people away.

I’d get stuck in thought loops about the situation.

And it would take me days, even weeks, to recover.

Some of those emotions sat with me for years.

They made me feel uncomfortable and easily triggered.

They made me protect myself

And held me back from many experiences

For fear of feeling those feelings again.

This affected my relationships, my work,

And my ability to live my life fully.

Then I realised I couldn't keep living like this.

So I embarked on a journey of self-transformation.

I focused on changing my mind to make it my friend,

Learning to love myself more than ever before,

And raising my vibration and emotional set point.

I learned many tools and methods

To get myself out of a dark space.

And that tool-box is still with me.

Now, when I feel a wobble…

I'm immediately aware of it

And process my emotions

As easy as ABC:

🩷 Accept & Allow

🩷 Body & Breath

🩷 Compassion & Care

I quickly return to my centre,

Gain emotional insight

And can make balanced choices.

So I've transformed how I feel about emotions,

And I welcome them all.

The whole spectrum of emotions

That colour the human experience

They show me what’s important to me

And then I let them go.

This makes me (almost) fearless!

I show up.

I express my truth.

I’m unapologetically me.

And I’m allowing life

To flow to me and through me.

Emotions are the colours of life

So I’m living my human experience

At its most colourful available to me.

Mostly, I feel peaceful, grateful, joyful

And kind of in love with life!

Because I know I can face it

Boldly and brightly.

The struggles don’t end...

But you can get A LOT better at navigating the storms!

Do stuck emotions, uncontrollable triggers and emotional overwhelm

Keep you from living your happy and fulfilling life?

What would SELF-REGULATION do for you?

DM for a free discovery call

I have a very special event coming up THIS SUNDAY, and I want to make sure that if you're a curious and playful creature...
17/10/2024

I have a very special event coming up THIS SUNDAY,

and I want to make sure that if you're a curious and playful creature,

or you like somatic movement,

you know about it - it's going to be fun and insightful! 🙂

It's a workshop full of facilitated movement explorations,

And there will also be a CI Jam at the end.

You'll slow down, relax, empty your mind...

move, explore, experiment...

and notice all the details that go unnoticed.

And you'll relate with others

with deeper understanding, acceptance, and respect,

while staying curious and playful with what's alive in this moment. 🙃

The 4 hour journey helps you to expand your awareness of spaces

and what’s moving in you and others,

sharpen your intuitive response,

transform control into creativity,

and find harmony in allowing and responding.

Limited spaces, send me a DM and book your place now 🙂

"I BELIEVE IN YOU!" 🤩Powerful words.Especially when you don't believe in yourself, right? 😱Everyone has big dreams that ...
02/10/2024

"I BELIEVE IN YOU!" 🤩

Powerful words.

Especially when you don't believe in yourself, right? 😱

Everyone has big dreams that they're perfectly capable of achieving, but don't follow them.

Because what they believe is:

"I'M NOT GOOD ENOUGH." 😔

Your parents meant well when they encouraged you to do better.

As a little boy or girl, what you heard was that it wasn't good enough. 😕

Your teachers meant well when they disciplined you over what's right or wrong.

What you felt was that what came natural to you, such as running or screaming, was a bad thing. 😟

So you lost trust in that impulse of excitement.

And you lost your voice. 😳

You let go of your unique spark so you'd be like everyone else, be "good" and fit in.

But I SEE YOU 😍

And you know why?

Because I also felt that I wasn't good enough.

Always the black sheep of the family. Different. 🙄

I also didn't believe in myself.

I'll confess I still get camera-shy to speak on video. ☺️

I get it that it's hard to put yourself out there at the risk of being judged!

The real question is:

👉🏼 Do I judge myself? 🧐

And beyond that...

👉🏼 What if I didn't judge myself? 👀

👉🏼 What if I fully loved and accepted my unique expression of being human on this earth? 👀

👉🏼 What if I allowed myself to just be me, and share my gifts, without worrying about the outcome? 👀

After all, not _everyone_ must like me.

'My' people will like me.

Not _everyone_ must like my gifts.

👉🏼 If just one person benefited, isn't that already worth it? 😃

👉🏼 If I lived following my dream, isn't that already worth it? 😃

I know that sometimes it's a long road to showing up, but it begins with the first step. 👣

Show up for yourself first. 👀

Give yourself the space to express yourself. 🥳

Do that thing you always wanted but couldn't justify your investment of time and money 🧚🏻‍♀️

Allow yourself to *LIVE YOUR LIFE AS YOU WANT IT* .

And *BE THE PERSON YOU ARE MEANT TO BE*

***

🌸*Love Yourself, Love Your Life Holistic Retreat, Gozo, 2-8 November 2024

Early Bird spaces still available
*****210 EURO OFF THE FULL PRICE*****

*FOR THOSE WHO ARE READY TO BELIEVE IN THEMSELVES*

I abandoned myself for years. And this is what I learnt.i know what it's like to abandon myself in order to not abandon ...
29/09/2024

I abandoned myself for years. And this is what I learnt.

i know what it's like to abandon myself in order to not abandon someone.

I felt responsible for them. I needed to help them and take care of them, sometimes even if they didn't ask or want it.

Like this, I felt useful. Needed.

I was important to someone.

It made me feel worthy.

I also know what it's like to abandon myself in order to not be abandoned by someone.

I wanted their approval. If they didn't like me, they might leave me. And it would confirm that I'm not loveable.

I wanted their validation. To be liked and wanted. To belong.

I wanted their love.

It made me feel worthy.

And I was always losing myself.

Until I realised something important:

The value, love and acceptance that I was missing was my own.

Let's face it: over-giving and people-pleasing are draining.

And really do nothing for your self-esteem.

Nor how loveable you actually feel.

Now I care about my well-being.

I feel better when I value myself.

When I respect myself.

When I care about my needs.

When I do what makes me happy.

When I allow myself to be.

When I allow my voice to speak my truth.

I feel better when I'm me.

I feel better when I pause to be with myself.

When I understand what's important to me.

When I follow my excitement.

When I experience and learn and grow.

When I allow myself to live my beautiful life.

When I follow my passion and purpose.

When my heart feels fulfilled.

When I'm so full that I freely pour my love on others and they feel better too.

Self-care isn't selfish.

And you can't pour from an empty cup.

So go ahead now, give yourself a hug and promise to take good care of that creature!

Just imagine... what would your life be like if you could unapologetically do the things you've been putting on the back burner? That course? That retreat? That holiday?

Still can't? DM the word Self-Love and know that help's on the way.

LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE YOUR LIFE Holistic Retreat, Gozo, 2-8 November 2024

2 DAYS LEFT to get 303 Euros off the full price. DM EarlyBird to book now.

3 DAYS LEFT to be a SUPER EARLY BIRD 🐦 and get 27% off the full price👉🏼 To leave behind old habits and patterns that no ...
28/09/2024

3 DAYS LEFT to be a SUPER EARLY BIRD 🐦 and get 27% off the full price

👉🏼 To leave behind old habits and patterns that no longer serve you 🙅‍♀️

👉🏼 To step into a new identity with a holistic approach to purposeful living 🧘🏻‍♀️

👉🏼 To recognise your worth, be yourself and live your life on your terms, with confidence, passion and purpose 🙋🏻

👉🏼 To melt away procrastination and take steps in the direction of a life you love 😍

👉🏼 To live an empowered and beautiful life with peace, joy and ease 😌

At the ✨ LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE YOUR LIFE RETREAT ✨ in GOZO, 2-8 November 2024, you will:

⭐ Explore yourself, what’s important to you and what’s blocking you, and align with your true potential, passion and purpose.

⭐ Discover ritual and the power of intention as a way to self-heal, self-transform and manifest.

⭐ Tune in and turn on to upgrade 5 key aspects of being (body, mind, emotions, identity and spirit) and 3 aspects of living (environment, relationships and impact).

⭐ Explore self-care tools and practices, and create personalised daily routines for the health and vitality of each aspect of your being.

⭐ Learn how to use your focus and attention to develop a positive, empowered mindset and tap into high vibes.

⭐ Learn how to navigate emotions, and how to use them as your guidance system and way to inner wisdom.

⭐ Make self-awareness, self-acceptance, self-compassion, self-love, self-care and self-accountability a habit, and reclaim your self-worth and personal power.

⭐ Experience how the natural elements and cycles can be applied for holistic living, with increased resilience, transformation and flow.

⭐ Create and take home a Self-Design Manual that will support your intention and manifestation, and guide your intuition, inspiration and motivation.

⭐ Enjoy both the co-creative force of the group work and the individual coaching sessions before and after the retreat to support your personal intention, process and integration.

⭐ Enjoy free time for rest and rejuvenation, self-reflection, and optional activities related to the self-work.

***

👉🏼 Tired of the same old self-judgements and stuckness that keep you playing small?

👉🏼 Feeling ready to take a leap of faith, knowing that a bolder and brighter version of you is waiting on the other side?

👉🏼 Comment or DM “Retreat” and I’ll get to you with more information 🥰

I had TWO options... which one would you take? You know those moments when you feel STUCK?I was saying "I want... but I ...
25/09/2024

I had TWO options... which one would you take?

You know those moments when you feel STUCK?

I was saying "I want... but I can't..."

Here’s what I discovered.

The one that says “I want” is that part of me that wants me to go further and grow.
👉🏼 It usually involves a risk, a stepping into the unknown.
👉🏼 She knows that growth happens on the edge of the comfort zone.

That part of me that says "I can't" is making excuses to keep me safe, but small.
👉🏼 She is keeping me safe in the comfort of what is known: the same old version of me and my reality.
👉🏼 Even if it isn't all that comfortable to stay there!

SAFETY VS GROWTH

I honoured both.

I saw that procrastination is just this current version of myself that's afraid to die.

Just as a bigger version of myself lies waiting on the other side of taking action.

Here’s the truth:

🥳 My first solo retreat is finally here! And I wasn’t going to run it because nobody knew about it!!!! 😳

For a whole year, I curated my most transformative work and poured all my heart and soul into the programme... two decades of experience: learning, application and guiding others in the holistic field.

👀 Except I didn’t do a crucial step - invite people to explore this amazing opportunity for THEM to shift from their own version of 'staying safe' to growth! 👀

I looked for all the “reasons” why I shouldn’t do it.

I felt anxious and paralysed.

Yes, even though I know my worth, my capability and the value my offering would bring to others.

My choice to make? Remain in reactive inaction or apply my intention, envision and take action!

🌟 I turned overthinking into observation of factual information.
🌟 I transmuted anxiety into excitement. \|
🌟 I transformed procrastination into taking action.
🌟 I turned my calamity into opportunity!

WHAT ARE YOU CHOOSING?

Stay in your comfort zone that no longer serves you, or take that risk to activate a life of growth and confidence in you show up with yourself and in the world?

✨ Love Yourself, Love Your Life ✨
A Holistic Retreat in Gozo, 2-8 November 2024. Limited spots available, for those who choose to evolve, despite all odds 😊

Comment Love for more info.

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​Thai Massage, Holistic Oil Massage, Energy Balancing Massage, Oriental Therapeutic Massage, Stress Buster Massage, Relaxing Massage, Ayurveda, Indian Head Massage, Reflexology & Aquatic Therapy

What makes a FeelNHeal massage special?

I draw from twelve years experience and a wide variety of massage techniques, including Swedish, Ayurveda, Acupressure and Thai massage, to offer a customised massage treatment to deal with your individual needs. Whether you have back pain or it's a desire to relax and pamper yourself that brings you, expect personal attention because you deserve it. Although I'm an ITEC qualified masseuse with a wide variety of massage training qualifications, my true qualification is a life-long interest in holistic healing. This is no ordinary massage, it is a meditative sensory journey to physical and mental well-being.

About the therapist Melanie Drury