29/12/2025
This year, Ibiza 🦋
I swam naked daily like a fish and reclaimed freedom in my body.
I deepened real, mutual friendships and let go of those that no longer served me.
I sang, made music, and collaborated with inspiring souls.
I danced like no one was watching, created art, and shared raw, vulnerable content — which wasn’t always easy, but deeply necessary.
I travelled, laughed, held retreats and workshops, and both received and gave support with an open heart — because we need more presence in this world.
But above all, 2025 was a great shedding of the snake for me.
I’m not sharing this from victimhood or to get anything back.
This year stripped illusion.
I’m sharing lived truth — raw, with absolutely no pity required.
I learned that my projections were blind spots.
I mistook red flags for green.
I saw how my hunger for deep soul connection and a sense of safety — to be held in femininity and love — made me tolerate danger, risking my mental and physical health.
When you don’t feel protected, you’re not imagining it.
Love does not come with intimidation.
Kindness can carry agendas.
Care shows itself in how quickly respect returns during conflict.
Being mocked, impatiently pressured, called names, physically hurt in anger, silenced in expression, or punished with withdrawal — this is not okay.
Do not ever normalise it.
That is not safety.
That is not love. Abuse is real, and it can happen to anyone — sometimes hard to see when you’re in it.
I forgive myself for what I’ve tolerated and continue learning from life, knowing it guides me toward greater wisdom and purpose.
So I stepped out — and I will step into 2026 with more grace, more experience, and more love to give.
Happy New Year, everyone — 2026, let’s dance 💃🏾💃🏾
