03/02/2026
The Whole Horse Journey
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If you teach riding, this is for you.
Being a good instructor is not only about correct position, clear aids, and tidy transitions. Those things matter, but they are not the whole picture. They are only part of it.
In many riding schools and yards, children are still being taught how to sit on a horse long before they are truly taught who the horse is beneath them.
They are learning to ride before they understand behaviour, body language, pain, herd dynamics, or how a horse communicates. They are often fast tracked to “up top” without ever really meeting the being on the ground.
That gap matters.
A child who understands a horse learns empathy, timing, feel, and responsibility. A child who only learns to ride learns technique without relationship.
Groundwork should not be optional. It should be foundational.
Understanding feeding should not be an extra. It should be basic horsemanship. Recognising signs of discomfort, stress, or relaxation should be as important as knowing the correct diagonal.
Because when you teach the whole horse, you don’t just create better riders. You create more thoughtful, compassionate humans.
This is also a safety issue, not just a welfare one. A child who can read tension in a horse’s eye, notice a tight jaw, a swishing tail, or a subtle bracing of the body does not just have better feel. They have better judgment. They make safer decisions, and the horse feels safer too.
If a ten-year-old were able to quietly halt her pony mid lesson and say, “He’s telling me his back hurts,” that would not be riding skill.
That would be relationship, and it would matter.
And here is the piece that often gets overlooked.
Progress needs to be visible.
Too often, students are “working on trot” or “improving position” for years, but with no clear sense of where they are, how far they have come, or what comes next. The learning is happening, but it is invisible.
When progress is not clearly mapped, children start to believe they are stuck, even when they are actually improving every single week. Confidence fades, motivation drops, and families drift away, not because the teaching is bad, but because the journey is unclear.
One powerful way to make space for deeper horse understanding is to treat it as real progress, not a delay before “real riding.”
Imagine if “reading body language,” “recognising discomfort signals,” “leading with feel,” or “understanding herd behaviour” were visible milestones alongside rising trot or canter (lope) transitions. If students could look at a simple map of skills and say, “I’ve already mastered this, this, and this, and I’m only three steps away from the next level.”
Suddenly, learning feels purposeful and every effort feels worthwhile, and lo and behold - excitement returns.
And this does not require overhauling an entire programme overnight. It can start small.
Five minutes discussing why a horse pins its ears.
A monthly unmounted session on grooming, anatomy, and body language. Asking, “What is your horse telling you right now?” before “heels down.”
I also know lesson time is precious. I know parents want to see their child cantering, jumping, and “making progress.” I know facilities have limitations and instructors are under pressure to deliver visible results, especially in a competition driven culture that often rewards speed over understanding.
But foundational understanding does not slow progress. It accelerates it. Students develop better feel, better timing, and better awareness when they understand why the horse responds the way it does.
And to the parents watching from the rail. Your child may beg for faster gaits or bigger fences. But the instructor who slows down to teach horse language, discomfort signals, and ground skills is not holding them back. They are building something that will last decades, not just a season.
If you are an instructor, it is worth asking yourself honestly.
Are you just getting through lessons, or are you guiding students along a clear, meaningful journey?
Are you helping them recognise their achievements, not just their mistakes?
Are you teaching them about the horse as a living, feeling, communicating being, or only about how to sit and steer?
And if you were not taught this way yourself, that is okay. Most of us were not. But we can be the generation that changes it.
Teaching with horses is not just about producing competent equestrians. It is about shaping how the next generation relates to animals, to responsibility, to care, and to connection.
Make the path visible and show your students how far they have come. Honour the whole horse.
Because when you teach deeply and transparently, you don’t just keep students. You change how they see horses forever.