09/09/2025
Last week, we were beside Mrs. Wong in the final days of her cancer journey. Even with the medication that eased her pain at the very last moment of her life, we realised how heartbreaking it was to know that things could have been different if her family had reached out earlier. She could have had more comfort, more dignity, and more quality moments with her loved ones in the weeks and months before.
Listening to her story, we couldn’t help but think of the potential that was lost. With earlier support, her pain could have been managed sooner, her family could have felt less alone, and her days could have been filled with more peace instead of suffering.
This is what we see too often. Families wait until the very end before seeking palliative care, when in truth, palliative care is meant to walk alongside you much earlier. It’s not only about the last stage. It’s about making the whole journey better. From the first signs of serious illness all the way to the final day.
Palliative care is about living as well as possible, for as long as possible. It’s about reducing pain before it becomes overwhelming, supporting families so they don’t have to carry the weight alone, and giving loved ones the dignity and comfort they deserve.
Mrs. Wong’s journey is a reminder of why this matters. While we could be there for her in those final moments, it was bittersweet to know how much more could have been done if care had started earlier.
👉 PLEASE DON'T WAIT UNTIL THE FINAL DAYS. 💙
Reaching out sooner won’t take away hope, it will bring relief, peace, and the best quality of life possible for your loved one.
From our hearts, we hope more families will seek support earlier, so every precious day can truly count.
-Name changed for privacy.
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