07/05/2026
Marriage is never perfect. Never design to be perfect but everybody are chasing the illusion of perfect marriage/relationship. There's none. Marriage work by united 2 different person that complete each other. We are flaws. We thought that we're better than anybody else, we are smarter than anybody else, but we're not when it come to emotion. There are no better, prettier or smarter when it comes to marriage. Its only "Work In Progress".
There's always flaws and mistake along the journey. If you think that your boyfriend or girlfriend leaving you is the hardest thing you have to bear? Wait until you get married and constantly argue for the small things. Sometime, you don't even know you're fighting about. Sometimes it just not taking trash out, sometimes just being too tired to explain things, sometimes it just other smaller thing.
Feelings and emotions work differently than logic and calculated risk or prediction. So the best for everyone to understand is, it is okay if you always in argument, it is okay if you feel hard to find happiness, it is okay to not chasing perfect marriage, because Marriage is the "Work in progress". Some day good, some day bad, some day better. It will eventually getting better day by day.
Goodluck newlyweeds, couples and everyone. Godspeed.